A couple weeks ago I met this cute waitress at a new bar/pub in town she was a nice girl we talked quite a bit. She seemed a lot more personal with me then anyone else I don't know if I'd take it as an ioi or not but I think there may be some interest I went back another time we talked some more again she seemd to be more personal with me. I'd like to pursue her a bit but I know its kinda tough with waitresses or hired guns in general. What would be the best was to #close? I've had ppl say leave my # but I've talked to my friends that are waitresses they've all said NO that they just laugh at guys that do that. So I guess my question is what would be the best way to pursue this girl and # close

It's really not any harder than any other girl.

The key is to be playful/cocky/different.

I replied on a similar post a short time ago. This is the encounter:

I had to meet my daughter for "Brunch" To meet her B/F's parents...boring. I even got a stern warning not to be myself! lol.

At the restaurant, the waitress takes drink orders. Provides our drinks.

Takes everyone's food order, I'm last. The final thing she asks is. "would you like anything else?'
Fuck sake they ALL ask that every time!

Heywood; "I'd like a high five please", and assume the position. She gets a giant smile on and high fives me!

I get the best service at the table, always 1st, lots of general banter.

When she brings our bill, I wright "Hi 5" in the tip line ( But still tip 20%).

When she gives me back my copy, boom there is a number on it!

What’s the secret? Being playful, fun,not acting like a Wuss who wants to call her 100 times a day and tell her how pretty she is.

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Waitress are easier man because they are always on the run; they have less time to test you. A little playful banter and you can close the number without much effort.

2nd: Stop second guessing yourself and looking for "ioi's". If a girl blinks at me, I just assume she wants to bang me and I act accordingly.

The main key is just to treat them like normal people and not like someone doing a job; I picked up a waitress on Tuesday, at this upscale brunch spot, and it went like this.


She comes to the table

I look her in the eyes.. " hey whats up"

Her: Hey, what would you like to drink

Me: Easy.. we don't even know each other yet

Her: ( she giggles and then looks confused[Waiting for me to lead] )

Me: I smile back.." I'm joey" .. and then read my hand out for the shake. " I'll just take (whatever I ordered) "

We went bantered a bit throughout the time I spent there; I'd tease on spending too much time with me and neglecting her other tables..

Longstory shirt

She brings me the bill, I loook at it and say " so which one of these numbers are yours". She laughs, and then I reach into her top shirt pocket, pull the pen out, hand it to her, and slide a napkin to the edge of the table where she is sitting. She writes it down, I pay the bill, exit the place and call her that night.


Simple stuff man; just believe in yourself, i'm sure she digs you.

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Thanks for the advice! Usually that's how I am playful confident/direct and I have had good luck with #closing waitresses that way. But I am just back in the game after a breakup that stung a bit. I just need to tune up my inner game a bit and get back to my old self lol.