Alright listen, I'm no pro nor do I post often, but I know enough to hopefully help you. Your not completely fucked but you better get this mindset of "I really like her" and "I don't want to fuck this up" OUT of your head, or else your going to do exactly that. Truth is, I learn from when I fuck up. When I go for a kiss, I first kino her, usually grab her hand or put her hands around my neck. If she's not acting like a complete awkward anti-social weirdo when i do this then it's on. And from there its a matter of time, you can kiss right away or play with it for a few minutes then go for it. Catch her off guard, and if she turns her head(usually out of surprise) just go straight for the neck. If she's pissed laugh it off and take her ass home lol. I've noticed that I hardly ever get rejected when i go for things now, and I think its because ive gotten the fear of rejection out of my head(took fuckin forever though) and im not coming off as a nervous weirdo and everything just flows. Whenever I do something risky, i just say fuck it, do it, and if she gets pissed i just say to myself that she'll get over it(use this concept everyday now with pretty much everything i do). set the tempo early because in all honesty, im not looking for a girl to be friends with, and the earlier she knows this then the earlier I can either stop wasting time or spending more time. In pretty much every relationship that is going to turn sexual there is a follower and a leader. You always want to lead. She texts you first, you want her chasing you, not the other way around. so if I were you I would freeze her out for a good week. You want her to text you. If she does text you, dont text much, setup another date, then say goodbye. If she doesnt, text her after the week has passed, and setup a date. Time is your friend, if you dont seem clingy and like you have to talk to her every second of every day then she will like you more. I've noticed the longer you text, the easier it gets to fuck things up so keep texting short(unless it's a sexual conversation). First on the date, worry about the kiss, if you kiss her once, you can kiss her twice. Once you have kissed, move to a place where you can fuck. then makeout, and slowly escalate.

EXACTLY this.
And this.
And this. EXCEPT don't WORRY about shit (i'm being pedantic tho) - just do it and laugh about the results - its JUST A FUCKING GAME. There's no shortage of bisexual chicks who watch porn dude! lol
Haha leme break it down for u dude - the equation is real simple:

Chick coming to ur place wearin "booty shorts" + letting you touch her ass = she wants u to fuck her brains out. LOLOL

Nothing complicated dude. stop overthinking shit.

It's hard to advise on how to reconnect with limited info like this, but just leave it for a bit and then text her out of the blue "lets get drunk"

she'll know wtf u mean and then just take it from there.

i really hope it works out 4 u bro. make sure u report back!

I agree with most of this, however a few points to remember.

Firstly do not text her "let's get drunk" even though SU may seem like a chick who just wants to get fucked she still needs better plausible deniability. You would be falling into her frame if you said that.

To regain the frame the only thing you can really do in this situation is to just set up a new dat and see if she bites. If she does bite then do te following:

Do not mention the other night. Move past it. Yeah you should've escalated, cool you learnt from it, now move on. Regaining the frame means doing things on your terms, doing what you want to do, not what she wants to do. This doesn't mean be a compote asshole and ignore what she wants, but it means shes not going to get it just b ause she's pretty. She has to earn it with you. Look into hoop theory for this.

Look this thing could be as easy as texting "Let's get drunk" and you're in, but try to think of something better. Plan an awesome evening at your place. Cook together, make a big cocktail together, enough to get you both drunk, make it real tasty, do all this to music playing in the background, shit that both of you like.

Don't try to impress, but do what you want to do. Then either she comes around or she doesn't. You must lead.

Remember, when it comes to escalation girls will NEVER make the first move. They will NOT escalate on you. They will comply. Therefore YOU must escalate. You must initiate it and keep pushing. You must take the responsibility off of her hands. That means that when you find yourself in a situation where it's scary to escalate, like lets say you know you need to try take her pants off but you really don't want to in case she doesn't comply, then you HAVE to do it. If she resists, chill, its only resistance. Turn her on a little more, if she says no agree and continue. Let her truly enjoy the moment.

You must lead. She will not. At least not sexually. This is how you regain the frame. Act like last time never happened and this is a brand new date on a clean slate. Then do the above unapologetically thinking to yourself "fuck it let's just have some fun and see how far I can take this."

Good luck.

Alright cool, i'll try what you gentlemen said, I really appreciate the help, i have trouble putting myself in the right mindsight, ill try to just have fun with it.

And now that i think about it, she was dressed like a complet whore. Tube top and booty shorts skin showing like crazy. Ashe wanted that peepee.
I have trouble sexually escalating in person, i feel out of my element soing it because i havent sone it enough times, ive had aex with girls before but it was far easier.

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lol Im a natural so i dont really bother with all this PUA shit, but im gona be readin this dudes posts. dude is on point. gota say it.
I can guarantee u 100% ur gona get there bro - not necessarily with her, but u'll be escalatin like a pro in no time! i can already see the change in ur mind set from ur earlier posts. next time ur with her just think to urself "hmm.. wat can i do with my hot little fuck doll??" lol she is just practice! (1 of many!) and like anything the more practice u get, the mor boss u will be... but dont even worry about that shit. just ENJOY THE MOMENT! even beein cock teased is fun anyways - even tho its obvious she wasnt doin that at all - she straight up wanted u and most likely still does.

good luck man.

thanks man, sorry for my shit spelling btw, ive been using my phone

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UPDATE

I froze her out for a week, and yesterday morning I woke up with a simple "hello" text from her. We text back and forth for a few texts and then she doesnt reply all day, I texted her again today a funny picture of some high kid, and she hasn't replied. Now, she typically opens her text with me on some completely random tangent, never "hello". And taking hours to reply is typical of her, but this time she isnt replying at all after her being the one who initiated. I wanna fuck this girl already. I have two others waiting now.

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For future reference you never reply to a girls first attempt at contacting you after a freeze out; unless its some elaborate kind of apology. " Hello" is simply baiting you to see whether you have gotten over her or not.

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Well damn, what now?

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Wait it out.

Or you could also just invite her out for tomorrow night. See how interested she REALLY is in you. If she is, she'll come out. If she isn't she'll make up an excuse, and will not try to set up another day.

Will do, thanks!

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