ok this is kinda fucked.

So I met this girl at a concert and we hit it off well. I get her fb and we start messaging a little bit and then I invite her to an event a bunch of my friends are going to.

Then the night before this event she tells my best friend (mind you she's been friends with him since before I met her) that she has a boyfriend. fuck. But she does so really casually in passing.

Anyways, comes the next day and once again we have a great time. I thought for sure she wouldn't be interested in me because of her boyfriend so I'm not planning to make a move. But soon we find ourselves spending our entire time together just talking and light touching. I'm clearly IOIing her. And she never once mentions her boyfriend to me. Later I even ask her something along the lines of weather or not she's a relationship person to which she completely avoids the question and doesn't reply.

anyways after that day I was pretty confused but we had effectively arranged another time to see each other, not privately though. Once again the second chill was very similar to the first one except for the fact that I was never able to get isolation with her because there was a third wheel who we didn't want to ditch. But still no mention of her boyfriend to me.

Then finally, she invites me over to her place because she's hosting a jam. Trying to do anything with her then was pointless as she was running around being a host and had no time to herself. Anyways at one point in the night she says she needs to talk to me for a minute and says, "I think you should know I have a boyfriend, I didn't tell you before because I was confused about things." I responded in jest which made her a little frustrated. She started telling me that she was serious. I told her "its ok I've known for a while that you have a boyfriend." Which sort of floors her. It takes her a moment to respond but then shes just asking me all sorts of question, like for how long have I known, who told me ect... I tell her this isn't the right time to talk and we should do it later.

So anyways now I'm seeing her this Saturday... alone. Things aren't looking up too much for me I realize but there is still hope. So the question is what the fuck do I tell her? (I want a relationship type deal with her, but preferably a no commitment one. Might be shooting for the stars with that)
how do I respond to questions such as, What do you want out of me?

Help!

Proceed as if she has no "Boyfriend" she is. Don't bring it up again, if she does, sidestep it.

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She wouldn't of brought it up if you were so concerned about it. Women are 10x more intuitive than men; meaning they can get a strong sense of your mentality and state. She knew you knew about the boyfriend subconsciously and because you were making it such an issue in your mind she had no choice but to accept that you can't handle a girl with a boyfriend.

If you can bury the idea of her having a boyfriend and just be yourself you can get her with ease. But if its bothering you which it may, (hence the reason you made this post) you're going to be driving into a roadblock. Shrug it off dude, its just guy. Now if she was dating superman or bruce wayne I'd be worried. But the odds are he's just an average guy. Hang in there.

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