Neither do I, of course, but I know such a man. We became friends in my senior year in college when I started to become aware of game and the successful habits of guys who get laid. Almost daily he would have an anecdote about talking to random girls and how easy it was to get phone numbers. Many of the dates he ended going on resulted in getting some type of action. Sometimes I wondered if he exaggerated his success, but looking back I believe he actually underplayed it to not hurt my feelings. He knew I wasn’t getting any play and probably hid the strong interest girls were showing him while I got none.

Fast forward twelve years. I was back at home for a month after my trip to Europe. I hung out with him and another college friend in Baltimore. All three of us majored in the sciences with intentions to become doctors, but we all dropped that in favor for eventually starting our own businesses. One would open a restaurant, the other would start a consulting firm, and I would write.

We went out to a nearby bar that had about two guys for every girl. I immediately noticed my friend getting extended eye contact from women. I would maybe get a glance while he would get a double take. One girl walked by us, stared at him, and slowed down, possibly to give him a chance to approach.

We walked to another bar where it was more of the same thing. I might as well have been invisible. Then I saw a girl grab his arm and stare at him like a lost puppy dog. It was both pathetic and amazing at the same time. He didn’t say anything and she walked away, continuing to stare from a distance. She seemed to be displaying signs of love while even more girls stared. For him this was normal, another night of receiving more female attention than an average guy receives in an entire year.

All the game you learn and all the effort you put yourself through to make yourself an attractive man still can’t compete with my friend. He just has to show up, smile, make small talk, and seal the deal.

Duh. Obviously looks, status, and money help. The idea of PUA is not to discount that, but to demonstrate that you can still get hot women without those three. Obviously, you have to have something going for you to get an attractive woman. If you are a total dead beat loser, why would any woman want you?

(1) I assume you are probably pretty young, as you get older you will find who people date has less and less to do with looks than you may think so judging guys game by the looks of who they have an LTR with is stupid.
(2) The reason they say looks etc. don't matter is not because a good looking guy doesn't have an advantage, but because you can still get hot girls without looks and so that you stop worrying about your looks because they are what they are and you can still learn to improve game without improving looks (though you should try to improve looks also via gym etc.)

To answer (1) yea that is funny. Either way, sometimes it's fun to get it in with a fatty! However, like i said, looks aren't everything for an LTR even for guys. As for 2, of course my game would be different depending how I looked; but that is part of PUA man, adapting your game to what you have and for what you do not have. The goal of PUA is not to be the best pick up artist in the world, but to be the "most improved" so to speak. And most improved can be a really huge fucking improvement for many people, even without good looks.

All the game you learn and all the effort you put yourself through to make yourself an attractive man still can’t compete with my friend. He just has to show up, smile, make small talk, and seal the deal.

Average looking guys with small cocks get laid too. In fact, majority of the males on this planet are ordinary looking and make the most number of babies worldwide. The OP is harping on the exception rather than the rule.

Yeah also we all have seen an ugly guy with a super hot woman...

Some information that PUAs omit, is that most relationships do not start through a cold approach.
Also all these "Alpha" personality traits that seem so attractive to women can't be displayed during a cold approach. These attractive personality traits are displayed through a lot of time.
When women say that personality is much more important than looks, is not that they are lying is that they are not taking into account the cold approach.

It is really absurd to believe that one answer, one neg or some weird "alpha" thing that you can do in 2 minutes of starting an interaction with any girl at any time will immediately start a train of thoughts in the girl like this: "Oh he did not kiss my ass as any other guy, that naturally can only mean that there are millions of other women wanting to sleep with him, he must be the tribe leader, ohhh and I remembered that evolutionary humans are not close to primates or dolphins, but we come from Lions where all the females from the group fuck only with the leader, dammed I'm so wet now that I can't wait for this guy to fuck me... of course he has only a limited time to make his move because after 5 minutes I'm not going to be wet anymore and if that happens he will enter forever and ever into the Friend-zone"


In cold approach I would say that if your goal is to start some kind of sexual relationship with the girl, then timing(meaning that you meet the girl in the moment that she was willing to meet someone) and looks determine 90% of your end result. The other 10% is about logistics and acting like a normal person.

If your end result is wanting to impress other guys, get tons of phone numbers, etc. Then yeah game determines 100% of your results.