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| Incubus69 | PostPosted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 11:56 pm | |
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Location: Manhattan, IL | | Just wondering my fellow PUA's what exactly does Disqualification mean during an opener? I'm still reading Style's book "The Game" so I guess it will say in it. But for now explain more in detail about how to use it. Thanks! _________________ "Women Love What They Can't Have!"
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| xxIcexx | PostPosted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 12:41 am | |
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Location: New England | | Basically what it means is you are "rejecting" yourself before she can reject you
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say you are talking to a chick and you feel a good vibe, then you say something like, wow you remind me so much of my ex girlfriend, we only lasted two weeks.
by doing that, you are giving off a signal that she reminds you a a negative aspect of your life which should give her an impulse to qualify herself. Dont be too serious when you are saying it, keep up the cocky/funny attitude and throw in a smile right after.
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| PM88ENG | PostPosted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 1:34 am | |
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Posts: 80 | | It is to disqualify yourself as a potential suitor.
If you give out an "I'm not interested" vibe, you will come off as non-threatening; which is ideal for the approach.
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| Rye Lee | PostPosted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 1:52 am | |
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Location: Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada | | You can do it 2 ways, either disqualify yourself and do it in a way that doesn't blow yourself out, but instead makes her want to interest you, or disqualify her and again make her then qualify herself to you and try to make you interested in her.
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| mozyFresh | PostPosted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 4:27 am | |
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Location: bizarro world | | Some examples:
Moz: We are so alike, thats a shame we could never go out with each other, we are way too similar.
HB: whats wrong with being too similar?
M: Because people would'nt be able to handle us, think we are bad enough when we are by ourselves, it would be like twice as crazy, we would probly end up building an army together and invade poland.
M: Too bad your not my type because you are really nice.
HB: so whats your type?
M: i dont know, maybe i will have to find out, i just go by instinct
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