Your piercing doesn't fit your style, it seems something that got there for no reason.
It's cool if you use it but you have to become more casual and less kid that uses brands in it's clothes.
About shirts, don't button all the buttons, let at least 3 buttons opened.
Get some tan, you don't need much actually.
You have nice hair, why should you trim it? Let it grow and do some cool hair cut, i'm not sure what i should recommend you because i don't know how your hair behave when grown.
Dress more with urban style, like:
http://us.123rf.com/400wm/400/400/dotsh ... -style.jpg
http://us.123rf.com/400wm/400/400/dotsh ... -style.jpg
http://www.lefthandstyle.com/wp-content ... en_man.jpg
http://cdn103.iofferphoto.com/img/item/ ... vHvg3H.jpg (forget the tie)
Don't goo too urban, make it seem in the middle of urban and classy.
The main goal of that clothing is to "pimp" your chest with a scarf, open collars, etc. this way you'll make your self with better body posture, you'll seem more opened, believe me.
Also girls love scarfs, they love to play with them, and you know, how much they play much they get closer (:
Also use 2 different perfumes which you change by week to avoid people to get used to the same smell.
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Oh and burn those cloths
