About 6 months ago I had my first same-night smash with a girl who's also the hottest girl I've ever been with (Easily an 8.5). She lives north of the border in Canada but makes trips to my city every once in a while. We talk on Facebook maybe once every couple weeks, but I feel like I hit a wall with her. We have some common interests we can talk about, but she's just....I dunno....Hard to get a rise out of.

I feel like I have to do all of the heavy lifting. I do playful teasing and some negging and she always responds to my texts and IMs (Good sign) but doesn't have much to offer conversationally. If Miss Utah taught us anything in that cringeworthy video that's going around Youtube it's that good looking girls can coast on their looks without having to offer much in the way of personality. It just feels like small talk more than anything else. And it's not exactly easy to talk about meeting up since she has to travel long distances to get here.

Do you guys have any tips? Should I next her? Talk more about meeting up (She does most of her traveling when she has a break from school)?

Unless she is going to revisit, why are you wasting your time?

The only option would be to make her WANT to visit.

So go balls out sexual/funny/cocky. NOTHING to loose if you do.

And by your own estimation, only a bang night with a hot girl of mediocre intelligence to gain.

Have fun.

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She's more than likely going to be back sometime, she usually visits my city when she has breaks in school. I like the way you think, and I definitely have to go about it like I have nothing to lose. Yes, she was the hottest girl I've ever been with, but it's no use getting oneitis over someone who lives in another country.

I would stop talking to her.

Even if you try to swing for the homerun right now, I doubt she'll come visit. If you can do so without exerting too much energy, why not; but if you're afraid you'll be bored out of your mind doing it, and all you can see in her is a fuck buddy who will visit every now and then, why make a girl fall in love? You're just fucking with her emotions, and you won't get much out of it, while you can be looking for new, fun girls nearby.

I also have a boring girl on the other coast where I visit twice a year. Whenever I have visited, she never said no for me to swing by, and she is always happy to do it. This doesn't mean I talk to her on Facebook or text her. I'm sure you have better things to do.

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This is also what I've been wondering. It's not like seeing her would be even a monthly thing, it would be once a season at most. I guess I'll play it by ear. I'm assuming she'll be visiting again this summer, so she'll probably get in touch if she does

Your original post was you're answer


Move on find new girl that's not boring..... NEEEEXT!