Among various sticiking points I have this one that is especially intriguing for me. Quite often (much too often) something like this happens.

1. I meet a girl who is friends of my friends.
2. At the same night we kiss close. I do not mean one kiss but more like several minutes/hours of kissing, boob touching etc. I confidently place my hands beneath her clothes, all around her body, sometimes undress the top. Lot's of kinky stuff except the sex itself.
3. We exchange numbers (or I take her number). It's always the right one.
4. I'm expecting more action soon. More fun like the one we had on the day of our meeting or excalating it to sex. However all the tension seems to disappear and usually nothing more happens.

One of three things happens:
- they try to friend zone me
- they try to avoid second meeting
- they try to take their friends on the second meeting to make it look less like a date

I'm wondering what are your thoughts on that. Do they feel bad the next day that they were so quick on the first night? Or maybe my text game sucks? Maybe they start to perceive me as needy person, because I tend to lead to second meeting as fast as possible, before the tension disappears? Or maybe sometimes I am too slow later in comaprision tho developing the situation fast during our first meeting? Or maybe they tend to think that they are just one of many? These are just few of my ideas.

I got to ask, why are you not "sealing the deal" at the prone opportunity?

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Oh, maybe I should mention that here I am referring only to the situations when we were not able to close the deal at the same night for various reasons (no proper place, girl or myself have some responsibilities next day in the morning, me not playing well enough to break girl's second thoughts etc.). There are of course other situations when everything goes fine but for some reason when it doesn't happen on the same night it hardly ever happens.