I'd like to hear people's opinion on this topic.

I think:
- Love is something that is built over a long period of time and tested in several circumstances.


- Oneitis on the other hand is an addiction to the one girl.
She may be really beautiful and it may seem like you have good rapport with her in many areas. And then perhaps you're fucking her regularly (or even the once). BAM! you're now addicted and getting horrible withdrawal symptoms when she's not around.

Now she probably knows about how you have feelings for her and she now has the ability to use you however she wants. She controls your emotions.... unless, you can find a cure.

Cure: GFTOW.....pick up ten similar looking women, build rapport with them and fuck them. Oneitis gone!!!!