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PostPosted: Sat Jun 22, 2013 6:32 pm 
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ultimately....does this help or hurt me long term with these girls?

these two girls happen to be acquaintances (they might see eachother a couple times a year, not close friends)
i have been in friends with benifits relationships with them throughout the past few years....each of them would be a hookup about once a month...sometimes longer stretches..

there were different points in time when each of them caught feelings but i made it clear the there was no exclusivity and anytime we hung out was little more than sex. so ultimately, i was upfront, honest, and not playing either of them...they still kept coming back

yesturday i recieved this text message
GIRL A: so im having a very interesting conversation with "GIRL B" right now
GIRL A: you get around.

my stomach sunk, i have no idea how i came up, i have no idea how far the conversation went...or whether or not GIRL A ever revealed anything or just listened...i dont know how detailed women would get in such an awkward situation. there might have only been revelation on GIRL B's side, not sure.

I replied to the text an hour later
ME : sue me for being a single man who enjoys the company of beautiful, intelligent women

this reply was followed by a over 20 texts from GIRL A....explaining how im the biggest piece of shit scumbag on the planet...."im amazing you will never forget me"..."fuck you, ihate you, never talk to me again"...etc etc.
shes obviously got strong feelings still no matter how many times i explained this relationship wasnt going further

GIRL B has not contacted me yet.....shes been in a relationship for the past few months but still flirts with me through text...i dont want to contact her right now though, fearing she might go cold.

how should i behave to salvage my personal relationship with either of these girls?? im clearly straight forward in my intentions so i didnt wrong either of them from my view.

does the ladies man reputation help here, or does it cross the line and lead to infinite spite from these girls?


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 23, 2013 6:02 am 
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Bro, if you have been honest with them since the beginning, you have DONE nothing wrong.

She is just throwing her temper tantrum because she is jealous. The ladies man reputation definitely helps. Only players get a bad rep since they deceive their victims. A ladies man has the respect of the girls he is involved with. You are in the clear. Keep on gaming and this is going to happen more than once. So try to get pass this fake guilty conscious of yours.

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 23, 2013 6:48 am 
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You're not in a Relarionship with either girl, who gives a shit (besides them for feeling dirty and their motivation to make you feel guilty).
Laugh it up and move on.


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 23, 2013 4:27 pm 
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its not a guilty conscious thing...i just want to be able to bring these girls back around in the future.

they are both great in bed and they both ENJOY anal, which is a rare commodity

yes ill be moving on for the time being but should i tone down the sexuality to them next time?
and how long should wait to establish contact


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 23, 2013 10:03 pm 
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Nah, if being sexual is your thing then don't. Don't walk on eggshells now...and they will come back eventually.

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 23, 2013 10:12 pm 
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Dude, I feel you. I was in the same boat. Now I'm fucking just one of them :)

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 23, 2013 11:12 pm 
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Ladies man rep sure helps, preselection is highly legit.


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