Hi Guys!!!
Ok im in a moral dilemma here, taking suggestions.

Long story made short.

Been chatting with a girl i meet online for about 2-3 weeks.
Shes a nice chick, 21 years old (im 27 btw), not bad looking, just a bit lonely i would say.
So today i took some courage and asked her out.
She came out with "Ill think about it", so i gave away a bit more chatting and after a while i offered her again.
This time she said "Well... the truth is i cant"
I asked her why?
and she said: "Because i like some guy"
I was about to retreat, when i offered an advise (and i was being honest here) i said "take a chance, maybe he feels the same"
What came after surprised me, she said "well... he is from Asia"

I checked it out, it seems to be true, shes been talking with some guys from south korea, and shes hoping to go there someday.

Now, i know she doesnt have a chance because:
1) She doesnt speak korean, just some basic english
2) The guy doesnt even know as she said it
3) She cant pay the ticket there (she has no job and her family is just her single mom)
4) I dont know, some other logic reason

Now i have a few paths to take from here:

1) Move away and wish her luck
2) Play "friends" until she realises it wont work
3) Stay friends, maybe shes got some hot girl friends

Ideas?

Don't become "friends" with women. That only makes you look feminine.

My suggestion is to cut ties with this girl. It appears that you have sent the wrong message.

In the meantime, read philosophy. Take control of your thoughts and most importantly, your life.

what i would suggest is that you just stay chatting as friends and try offering her advice on this guy, then arrange a night out with your mates (preferably more female than male) then invite her along, if she comes good just try let her see that your not interested in her but everyone else, and then she may start to chase you. if she doesnt come then go out and make new female friends and stop talking to her untill she messages you.
if she messages you then keep it casual and cut it short saying i cant stay to long im off out or im in a meeting blah blah blah
if she doesnt message you then you know that you were her shoulder to cry on and emergency dick haha that she knew she could get attention off if feeling down

hope this helps

jon

I hate to admit it but you guys got it right.

Quick update:

I stopped texting her, about 6pm today she wrote me back as if nothing happened.
Talked a bit more and made again the same offer a simple cup of coffee (my mistake)
same excuse...

Took me a few more lines to see what was happening and left with a "sorry i have to go"
If she comes back again, im just gonna stop her this time with "sorry im not interested in being friends anymore"
or some shit like that. To the hell with her

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