Okay so I asked a girl for her number about 3 weeks ago. She said "I have a boyfriend" and I said "it's cool we can just be friends". I know this wasn't a great response but I hadn't been familiar with how to respond yet. Well I got her number and we've hung out probably 5 times. I make sure I'm flirty, I make sure to touch her and make eye contact a lot. I have went to clubs with her and her friends twice. I've made sure to dance a lot with her friends to try to heighten the jealousy factor. When we dance we get very close. I make sure to hold her waist and hands.

Ever since we became "friends" she hasn't mentioned her bf once. She texts him quite often. He lives 2 hours away because she goes to my college and moved away from home. We make sexual jokes via text and I make sure my text game is good. I don't wanna be in the friend zone but I don't wanna go for a kiss disrespectfully. Not to mention I don't wanna deal with her boyfriend finding out then wanting to fight me, shits stressful. So HOW SHOULD I PLAY THIS?

1) If I was her bf and I found out someone was trying to game my girl, I'd knock you out. So don't be a pussy, if you're gonna go this route, be prepared to face the consequences.

2) I don't game girls with bfs cause I think karma is a bitch, but I'm not judging your morals. Sounds like you're in the friend zone, but the only way to find out for sure is to make a bold move. Girls are usually either very anti-cheating in which case you're SOL, or they're very open. Seldom can you find a girl whose gone years and years in a faithful relationship and then succumb to tempation. Therefore, you might as well go for it if you dig her that much

Thats exactly what i think, you've either got to go for it or just drop it, be more than friends or just friends. Work her like you normally would, arouse her, run routines, take her to one side and go for it!

As for the BF, well yeh like 2surgical said!!

I think it's a d-bag move to hit on a girl with a bf. I let a guy f-up my last relationship and I know that in my next relationship if a dude is hitting on my girl he's gunna meet my fist. Don't be the asshole and personally I hope the girls guy finds out and kicks your ass.

I was asking for what my options were. Ya'll just threw me in the wrong boat. I WOULD feel bad for ruining their relationship that's why I was asking what ya'll would think the best route to go. I didn't wanna go the 'make a move' route, hence the "disrespectful kiss' comment. I don't wanna be disrespectful. I've done it before and felt bad even though the other girl's relationship was basically over. So far I think I'm gonna go the route my mom said "Just ask her how she feels about it".

Dude, go for it. The biggest regret you can ever have is not trying!

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I did. I told her I dug her and I know she has a boyfriend so I thought I'd let her know in case she wasn't happy in her relationship. I said if I were him I wouldn't want a guy always around my girl who is obviously trying to get her to like him so I thought I would put it on the table just so you knew and back off if you weren't feeling it. She basically said he has jealousy issues so I'm probably right and if she didn't have a boyfriend she'd totally date me. We'll see what happens but I guess it's time to go back to the game and leave her to see what she really wants. Thanks to those who gave input and didn't assume I was just a dude trying to make her cheat on her boyfriend. I got money his jealousy issues will end it since they're in a long distance relationship and guess who that leaves open

Hey I got a date with a hottie who claims to have a BF. How do I find out if its true and how serious it is. My intent is to straight up tell her that she seems cool but I don't want to mess with what she has going on and to call me if she ever gets available.

Perhaps I should ask her why she said yes to a date with me if she was already happy with the guy.

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you should have said: There's no problem, i let him take care of you when i were not near.
GOLD!

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Guys, most of you keep repeating over and over, that a woman state of mind varies wildly from one situation to another and even with time.

Then you come and say that a sluty girl that cheats on her bf with you will cheat on you with the next, and that there are these girls that simply just don't cheat.

Worst advise ever!

Yes, there are girls that are just sluty and cheat on their bf quite a lot. Still, if you try to pick up that sluty girl when she is in a clearly high note in her relationship, guess what happens... yes, she will be faithful that time, even if it only lasts for a couple of weeks.

On the other side. You can have a really honest girl. But suppose her bf that doesn't do shit and just free-loads at her place has behaved like a jerk yet again. Now imagine you knew the girl, had a good vibe with her, but she always kept you out of range for respect to her relationship and in that period you try your luck, guess what happens...

The world isn't black and white. Even we guys respond differently to the same situation according to what is going on in our lives.

If you like the girl and you think you would actually be better for her than her actual bf, go for it, you can actually be lucky and actually end up with her.

I think you handled it right with talking instead of going the bold move route and trying to kiss her. Had you've gone that route and she want as receptive you hoped or thought she might be well then you're dead in the water. Atleast this way you left the door open for the future. But one thing to keep in mind a sometimes a girl will say she has a bf as a shit test to see how you react under pressure. I know that's not the case here but something to keep in mind sor future gaming.

Another opinion I have on this topic is its a dog eat dog world if you want her go take her. Steal her from her bf but also be mindful of the consequnces such as having to deal with her bf. As well as the fact karma is a bitch you stole her from her bf what's there to stop another guy from stealing her from you? At the end of the day its a dick move but long and short is if you see something you want you gotta take it with that being said if that's the route you decide to take be mindful of the consequences. Good luck

Why don't you just save yourself the trouble and go for someone who actually doesn't have a boyfriend? Oh wait cos you don't have options I'm I right.
I'm not saying it's immoral or wrong to steal a girl. It's just drama, and you might end up beaten up in the process.

I'm in a store and there is a girl talking to some AFC. I happen to overhear her name and wander around a bit. She does some more shopping after leaving the guy and I just happen to be standing next to her at one point. I mention something Ironic and then say, "hey, you look like a Brenda, your name doesn't happen to be Brenda does it?" She blushes and smiles and is all kinds of amazed. I start chatting with her and do a little kino and then invite her to check out some local point of interest. She says she has a boyfriend and I say with out missing a beat, "thats cool, bring him along". By this point ive played with her hair, smelled her neckline, kino'd a bit and she is starting to squirm which is a pretty good sign she's getting wet. I get her phone number, give her mine, and set up the date.

She calls me an hour later and we chat a bit. She is still pretty giddy but she's going to see if her BF, who will be out of town, will let her "hang with me". He's all cool with her going out and doesn't seem to care much. Fast forward to the day before the date she calls me up and says her BF has cancelled his trip out of town, told her she couldn't go out with me, and has decided to spend all kinds of money on her. I'm cool with her, no pressure, just make sure she knows that I'm solid no matter what she does. She would be a cool addition to my already awesome life.

Three months later I happen to stumble into her and she has left her BF and wants to pick up where we left off.

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You're friendzoned. Not your fault, just a timing issue regarding her relationship.

Smash one of her friends, by now surely one of them has a thing for you.