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PostPosted: Wed Jun 19, 2013 9:41 pm 
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...they have all the options in the world these days and get to set ridiculously unrealistic standards; even well below average looking girls get to take their pick from literally hundreds upon hundreds of guys fiending to get the time of day from them.
A bit off topic, but I take odds to that whole philosophy enough to write a mini rant.
Many PUAs and people like Sleazy and Roosh unwittingly put women on a pedestal by treating them like a scarce commodity. You are destroying your own abundance mentality and generating neediness with that attitude. Don't be idiots. There is 1 woman for every 1 man out there. Unless you live in China, there is NO SCARCITY of women. They do NOT have a pick from literally hundreds upon hundreds of guys fiending to get their attention UNLESS they're hotter than literally hundreds upon hundreds of other girls. In which case, you're shooting for the HB8+s, and obviously, expect competition. If you want to win, you'll need to be better than your competition (be it social skills, money, looks, fame, whatever). HOWEVER. For every "average" lonely guy, there is an average lonely girl, and the only way its mathematically possible for an average girl to get attention from hundreds of guys is if an average man gives tons of attention to hundreds of girls (not possible). Get your heads our of your asses guys. There are just as many of them as there are of you. Women are even more lonely and needy than most guys, and are constantly looking for LTRs. Sure they may be spoiled, sure they may be entitled. But the fact is, there simply isn't enough beta male losers to go around for all of them, and when push comes to shove they get desperate enough to jump in bed with a douchebag.


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...they have all the options in the world these days and get to set ridiculously unrealistic standards; even well below average looking girls get to take their pick from literally hundreds upon hundreds of guys fiending to get the time of day from them.
A bit off topic, but I take odds to that whole philosophy enough to write a mini rant.
Many PUAs and people like Sleazy and Roosh unwittingly put women on a pedestal by treating them like a scarce commodity. You are destroying your own abundance mentality and generating neediness with that attitude. Don't be idiots. There is 1 woman for every 1 man out there. Unless you live in China, there is NO SCARCITY of women. They do NOT have a pick from literally hundreds upon hundreds of guys fiending to get their attention UNLESS they're hotter than literally hundreds upon hundreds of other girls. In which case, you're shooting for the HB8+s, and obviously, expect competition. If you want to win, you'll need to be better than your competition (be it social skills, money, looks, fame, whatever). HOWEVER. For every "average" lonely guy, there is an average lonely girl, and the only way its mathematically possible for an average girl to get attention from hundreds of guys is if an average man gives tons of attention to hundreds of girls (not possible). Get your heads our of your asses guys. There are just as many of them as there are of you. Women are even more lonely and needy than most guys, and are constantly looking for LTRs. Sure they may be spoiled, sure they may be entitled. But the fact is, there simply isn't enough beta male losers to go around for all of them, and when push comes to shove they get desperate enough to jump in bed with a douchebag.
^ good points, but Again, and I hate to do this, I have read 3 sleazy books, i have not read were he put women on a pedestal. About Roosh, i have not read his material, other than trolling on the Indians. Are the guys here talking about sleazy have read his blog and his book???

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...they have all the options in the world these days and get to set ridiculously unrealistic standards; even well below average looking girls get to take their pick from literally hundreds upon hundreds of guys fiending to get the time of day from them.
A bit off topic, but I take odds to that whole philosophy enough to write a mini rant.
Many PUAs and people like Sleazy and Roosh unwittingly put women on a pedestal by treating them like a scarce commodity. You are destroying your own abundance mentality and generating neediness with that attitude. Don't be idiots. There is 1 woman for every 1 man out there. Unless you live in China, there is NO SCARCITY of women. They do NOT have a pick from literally hundreds upon hundreds of guys fiending to get their attention UNLESS they're hotter than literally hundreds upon hundreds of other girls. In which case, you're shooting for the HB8+s, and obviously, expect competition. If you want to win, you'll need to be better than your competition (be it social skills, money, looks, fame, whatever). HOWEVER. For every "average" lonely guy, there is an average lonely girl, and the only way its mathematically possible for an average girl to get attention from hundreds of guys is if an average man gives tons of attention to hundreds of girls (not possible). Get your heads our of your asses guys. There are just as many of them as there are of you. Women are even more lonely and needy than most guys, and are constantly looking for LTRs. Sure they may be spoiled, sure they may be entitled. But the fact is, there simply isn't enough beta male losers to go around for all of them, and when push comes to shove they get desperate enough to jump in bed with a douchebag.
^ good points, but Again, and I hate to do this, I have read 3 sleazy books, i have not read were he put women on a pedestal. About Roosh, i have not read his material, other than trolling on the Indians. Are the guys here talking about sleazy have read his blog and his book???
You owe it to yourself to read a little bit of RooshV. He's spot on with a lot of his stuff. One day I was bored and read about an hour of his blog.

Real smart guy, seems to have a lot of field experience from Canada and Washington D.c. Probably one most women would find socially awkward but he's entertaining.


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^ good points...About Roosh, i have not read his material, other than trolling on the Indians...
I will quote some of his material in response to poodogr in the following, even though zmbcm1 has already made some good points.
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With regard to the notion "Yeah, pickup/game has a lot of scamster BS in it, but generally does good because it gets guys out there actually talking to girls.." Yeah, this is the view I've had for a long time. The funny thing is, as moderate as that view is, expressing something like that'll get you kicked off of PUAHate, and from the looks of it, Sleazy's forum as well.
In my experience this isn't true of Sleazy's forum. As I said, I have openly admitted to not agreeing with some of his views and yet I'm still free to post there.
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...About all of the negativity about Roosh, I can't see where any of it's founded. This guy sure isnt lying; he's actually invited on these foreign talk shows, etc when he travels the world, like that Ukranian one.
When Roosh is invited into FOREIGN talk shows does he discuss about the situation in America?

I believe they invite him because they see him as a sex tourist. Besides, going on foreign talk shows means absolutely NOTHING...it is in relation to his appeal on some foreign women: He is an American, with a different culture, different views points...THIS is his appeal to those shows, NOT his actual views on women or dating.
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The general narrative I see is, Roosh's view is that American women are spoiled, they have all the options in the world these days and get to set ridiculously unrealistic standards; even well below average looking girls get to take their pick from literally hundreds upon hundreds of guys fiending to get the time of day from them.
The problem with this view is that ultimately, it is regressive. Let's single out your point here so you can see how inane this view actually is.

"...Roosh's view is that American women are spoiled....even well below average looking girls get to take their pick from literally hundreds upon hundreds of guys fiending to get the time of day from them..."

For a woman to have a lot of sexual options she must first be appealing to a lot of men. Not ALL women are appealing (many are fat and unattractive)...and further still, very FEW women are appealing to A LOT of men ("cute" girls are aplenty in most major cities) .

So the idea that "...even well below average looking girls get to take their pick from literally hundreds upon hundreds of guys... " is completely flawed.

Your average man does not like ugly women and even if they settled for one they would use her only for sex.

What Roosh is REALLY saying is that he CAN'T COMPETE with the competition. However, MOST of the competition is AVERAGE.

If you can't compete with AVERAGE competition then you are atleast admitting that you're average yourself.

Your average man doesn't want to improve, he doesn't want to get better. So what's an average man to do?

Apparently, blame OTHERS for HIS shortcomings and go some where else, where it is supposedly easier!

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...And he actually DOES travel the world and "walks his talk" instead of just bitching on some blog or forum...
Roosh doesn't bitch? Are you retarded?

rooshv com/42-things-wrong-with-american-women

rooshv com/the-decline-of-american-women

returnofkings com/2123/40-pictures-that-show-the-decline-of-american-women

returnofkings com/3069/american-women-simply-cant-compete

Now, perhaps you can explain this to me. If he's having such a great time with women in Europe why does he continuously keep posting about American women? Surely GENUINELY happy people IGNORE things that they don't like. Especially when they don't have to face it anymore.

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...And he actually DOES travel the world and "walks his talk" instead of just bitching on some blog or forum...
Roosh doesn't bitch? Are you retarded?

rooshv com/42-things-wrong-with-american-women

rooshv com/the-decline-of-american-women

returnofkings com/2123/40-pictures-that-show-the-decline-of-american-women

returnofkings com/3069/american-women-simply-cant-compete

Now, perhaps you can explain this to me. If he's having such a great time with women in Europe why does he continuously keep posting about American women? Surely GENUINELY happy people IGNORE things that they don't like. Especially when they don't have to face it anymore.

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If I was happier in a better environment, after spending practically an upbringing in a shitty one, I'd sure have a bitter place in my heart for the old one.

Hell, when I moved to DC from my shitty, cliquey, old-boys-network city (the DC-based posts being what caught my eye about Roosh, and subsequently Sleazy's forum and that controversial post), I blogged about that shitty town for months, even posting Facebook updates shitting on the cliquey assholes I knew there who loved it.

With regard to the competition being merely average, and an inability to compete, this speaks more to the plethora of options that women now have rather than the ability of one guy, and the ensuing extra-pickiness we see. Average and "cute" 6.8'as to 7's get hundreds of emails on dating sites, they get approached on the street; they get approached in bars and clubs, at work. "Hot" guys approach them at the gym.

Throw any guy into an environment like that and you'll quickly see his criticisms say more about the environment than him.

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I can't post excerpts from his blog, so you'll have to read them yourself, but if Roosh ISN'T the problem why does his problem follow him EVERYWHERE HE GOES!?

Croatia and even his "favorite country" (Poland) eventually go down hill in his mind, From the article: "Everything you need to know about croatian girls" read point number 2 and the last paragraph.

Sweden From the article: "The final verdict on Swedish girls" read the first and second paragraph.

A quick read about in his blog and you'll realise he practically hates MOST of Europe.

Now, was the problem REALLY America...or was it actually him all along?

He doesn't care about culture or about people...he even says he doesn't pedestalize women, but he flies from country to country ONLY for pussy.

The great philosophers have always said you become what you predominantly think about, so what does that make Roosh?

A slave.

There are more examples, but I would just be wasting space, and I honestly have better things to do.


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I see you posted again.
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...I blogged about that shitty town for months, even posting Facebook updates shitting on the cliquey assholes I knew there who loved it...
Why were you posting Facebook updates shitting on people who actually like where they are? So they can be as miserable as you?
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...Average and "cute" 6.8'as to 7's get hundreds of emails on dating sites, they get approached on the street; they get approached in bars and clubs, at work. "Hot" guys approach them at the gym.
This says more about the mind set of the men than it does of the women. I NEVER put alot of work into hooking up with girls and yet I do much better than most.

If you treat women as scarce then they are going to believe they are scarce...why can't people see this?

It's no surprise Roosh now says these supposed great European countries are now becoming "Westernized".

It's because WESTERN MEN are visiting these places and are doing the EXACT SAME THING you described over there too as well...


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...they have all the options in the world these days and get to set ridiculously unrealistic standards; even well below average looking girls get to take their pick from literally hundreds upon hundreds of guys fiending to get the time of day from them.
A bit off topic, but I take odds to that whole philosophy enough to write a mini rant.
Many PUAs and people like Sleazy and Roosh unwittingly put women on a pedestal by treating them like a scarce commodity. You are destroying your own abundance mentality and generating neediness with that attitude. Don't be idiots. There is 1 woman for every 1 man out there. Unless you live in China, there is NO SCARCITY of women. They do NOT have a pick from literally hundreds upon hundreds of guys fiending to get their attention UNLESS they're hotter than literally hundreds upon hundreds of other girls. In which case, you're shooting for the HB8+s, and obviously, expect competition. If you want to win, you'll need to be better than your competition (be it social skills, money, looks, fame, whatever). HOWEVER. For every "average" lonely guy, there is an average lonely girl, and the only way its mathematically possible for an average girl to get attention from hundreds of guys is if an average man gives tons of attention to hundreds of girls (not possible). Get your heads our of your asses guys. There are just as many of them as there are of you. Women are even more lonely and needy than most guys, and are constantly looking for LTRs. Sure they may be spoiled, sure they may be entitled. But the fact is, there simply isn't enough beta male losers to go around for all of them, and when push comes to shove they get desperate enough to jump in bed with a douchebag.
^ good points, but Again, and I hate to do this, I have read 3 sleazy books, i have not read were he put women on a pedestal. About Roosh, i have not read his material, other than trolling on the Indians. Are the guys here talking about sleazy have read his blog and his book???
I'm going off of what people are saying their philosophies are. Honestly they both sound like whiny little bitches and I have zero interest in reading what they have to say.
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Roosh sounds like a whiny asspie (and looks creepy as fuck), and Aaron Sleazy should get back to his dayjob at geek squad, and stop pretending to be a pickup guru.
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If I was happier in a better environment, after spending practically an upbringing in a shitty one, I'd sure have a bitter place in my heart for the old one.

Hell, when I moved to DC from my shitty, cliquey, old-boys-network city (the DC-based posts being what caught my eye about Roosh, and subsequently Sleazy's forum and that controversial post), I blogged about that shitty town for months, even posting Facebook updates shitting on the cliquey assholes I knew there who loved it.

With regard to the competition being merely average, and an inability to compete, this speaks more to the plethora of options that women now have rather than the ability of one guy, and the ensuing extra-pickiness we see. Average and "cute" 6.8'as to 7's get hundreds of emails on dating sites, they get approached on the street; they get approached in bars and clubs, at work. "Hot" guys approach them at the gym.

Throw any guy into an environment like that and you'll quickly see his criticisms say more about the environment than him.
Looks like you completely ignored my post.
If you don't feel comfortable with 200 neckbeards competing against you on dating sites, stay off dating sites. Very few women get approached flat out on the street or in the gym, and it happens rarely. THERE ARE JUST AS MANY WOMEN AS MEN. AN AVERAGE WOMAN CANNOT BE PICKY. END OF STORY.
If you want a hot chick, step up your game, make some money, change your looks. You're whining to us that hot women don't want you because they have a lot of choices. You have a lot of choices too. Just drop in to your local McDonalds and take your pick of the fatties sitting around. Don't like the choices? Well neither do most "hot" women. They get hoarded at bars by borderline retards in polos, hideous creeps, and pennyless losers. Why would a hot woman choose any of them? If YOU want to be chosen, you have to SHOW the woman that you're better than HER and the men HITTING ON HER. If you can't demonstrate a value that's higher than the woman who you're gaming, YOU WILL NOT BE CHOSEN.
Guys failing here has nothing to do with the "west", or "America" or any of that bullshit. Eastern European men have it just as hard there as Americans do here. The reason western chumps do so well in Central/Eastern Europe, is because they are automatically assumed to be rich by the women living in the dilapidated shitholes like Serbia or the Czech Republic, who want nothing more than to get out of there and in to the American fairlyland of dollars and cars. That's why they jump on the first American chode they see, hoping to get a ticket out of their shithole.
I honestly can't believe how stupid people are thinking that somehow women in the third world are so much better. If you made more in a week than an American girl's family does in a year, they'd be good to you too, and would do anything you want to please you just so you don't leave, you can bet your ass on it.


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^^ Well said.

To put simply put it.

If you improve yourself and become ATTRACTIVE you will do well where ever it's legal to engage with the opposite sex.


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I see you posted again.
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...I blogged about that shitty town for months, even posting Facebook updates shitting on the cliquey assholes I knew there who loved it...
Why were you posting Facebook updates shitting on people who actually like where they are? So they can be as miserable as you?
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...Average and "cute" 6.8'as to 7's get hundreds of emails on dating sites, they get approached on the street; they get approached in bars and clubs, at work. "Hot" guys approach them at the gym.
This says more about the mind set of the men than it does of the women. I NEVER put alot of work into hooking up with girls and yet I do much better than most.

If you treat women as scarce then they are going to believe they are scarce...why can't people see this?

It's no surprise Roosh now says these supposed great European countries are now becoming "Westernized".

It's because WESTERN MEN are visiting these places and are doing the EXACT SAME THING you described over there too as well...
Stuck-up fucks who run the show and make it miserable for you in a town where you're living *not by your choice*, then when you suddenly get into an area where you're having a great time, you're gonna want those assholes to know about it.

I think the operative phrase here is "EXACT SAME THING" It's true, you've got a lot of guys out there doing the same thing and treating women as if they're such a scarce commodity (you now acknowledge that yes you're up against that many guys); and I suppose if that many western men are going to Bulgaria and doing that too, then sure, that sucks over there too.

But you proved my point.

RooshV writes something to the effect of "Why would any guy today be interested in hitting on some hideous whale especially when she's already got three guys gnawing on her cankles?"

That's why I'm not the pickup fanatic I once was because most of the methods and techniques have been rendered obsolete, and I've posted this before:

"It's kind of hard to pull of "push-pull" or run a "jealousy plot line", when as soon as you step away, there's one of a dozen dudes on stand-by, ready to swoop right in and take your place talking to a girl."

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RooshV writes something to the effect of "Why would any guy today be interested in hitting on some hideous whale especially when she's already got three guys gnawing on her cankles?"

That's why I'm not the pickup fanatic I once was because most of the methods and techniques have been rendered obsolete, and I've posted this before:

"It's kind of hard to pull of "push-pull" or run a "jealousy plot line", when as soon as you step away, there's one of a dozen dudes on stand-by, ready to swoop right in and take your place talking to a girl."
I give up. Until you take the advice given to you and change your attitude, you will forever be a needy failure with women.
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Looks like you completely ignored my post.
Very few women get approached flat out on the street or in the gym, and it happens rarely.
BS. It happens all the time. I see it.
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You're whining to us that hot women don't want you because they have a lot of choices.
I'm saying nothing of the sort. This thread is based on an assessment of a knee-jerk response by a very insecure forum moderator/blogger, when asked more about what "anti-pua" means.

Roosh was central to this and I still maintain that this guy is walking his talk because he's traveling and making stuff happen, just like he advises you do. Screw if he writes a few unflattering things about the girls in a certain city, etc. He's sure as hell earned the right to. He actually says the girls in Montreal LIVE UP TO THE HYPE!
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. . . Guys failing here has nothing to do with the "west", or "America" or any of that bullshit.
Yeah, you keep telling yourself that.
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Eastern European men have it just as hard there as Americans do here. The reason western chumps do so well in Central/Eastern Europe, is because they are automatically assumed to be rich by the women living in the dilapidated shitholes like Serbia or the Czech Republic, who want nothing more than to get out of there and in to the American fairlyland of dollars and cars.
Uhhh, no...how about it's because so many more of the girls tend to be drop-dead gorgeous, and there are more of them when you're out and about. Girls go out of their way to be feminine, much like how was much more commonplace in the US. And Roosh wasn't the first guy to cite this.

Why do you think so many Russian and Eastern-European marriage connection services have blown up like they have? Because you don't find girls that look like that here!

Take a look at the guy to girl ratios between your standard non-exclusive club/bar in US City X, vs. Iceland, and keep telling yourself eastern European guys have it just as bad.

Yeah, US guys really need to quit their bitching -

Look how much it sucks over there!

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THE DUDE IN THE VIDEO IS NOT AARON SLEAZY... See the problem with you guys instead of listening to dudes "That actually get LAID" and "KNOW WHAT THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT" like "sleazy" like him or not, you post none sense and compare sleazy to roosh god!!! This forum is pathetic... Again you guys put me in a position to have to defend Sleazy...

Guys that know what they are talking about: sleazy, 60yoc, teevester (they are all friends by the way), Mark Manson... Like them or not, they are right on...

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