Something else that has come to my attention while in the field the past few nights. I made a received calls/texts from some friends some male and some female. When a woman would call me, I'd pardon for the interruption and say, "Oh it's just (girls name) it'll just take a second...then I just tell her I'll call her back!" On another occassion Tripp returned my call while I was on a date. She was like, "Who is that!" I'm like, "Oh that just Dan (this is not tripp's real name) he's having girl trouble and needs some help! It happens from time to time." Then she asked me about the advice I give and demonstrated I'm socially savvy, relationship savvy, etc.
For those of you that don't yet see what I'm doing I'm hitting attraction switches. (Pre-Selection and Leader of Men) At one point during my 2nd date with a girl I met, she said, "Who were you talking to the other night, was that (girl who's a friend of mine)?" I said, "Yeah she calls me pretty often." Her eyes lit up. Even if women are just your friends, women naturally respond to the pre-selection switch. It sunk in so deeply that she brought it up on our second date, it bothered her that much. Keep in mind I did F-Close her that night.
After writing the post I'd been thinking of ways to use my phone to hit those attraction switches so she can actively see how I'm preselected, leader of men, protector of loved ones, etc. I'll pretend to get a text, or even actually get a call. Then say what I want afterwords to her using my DHV stories/routines.
Another thing I've done is saved voicemails from women on my cellphone. I'll sometimes play them when out on a date. I'll say, "Oh shit I got a few voicemails, do you mind?" ---Then I play it on speaker on my cell, and she hears my sister, some girls I know, and some women friends wanting to hang out. It works wonders when she can hear it. I just sit there and go oh yeah that's right I need to see her, call her, etc etc.
One last idea that I've been doing. If you cell phone has a camera get pictures of different girls you know and you with them if possible. I'll be talking about a friend, and say oh wait I have a picture. I'll show her all these pictures of beautiful women that are my friends. How's that for a DHV spike!
Use this valuable tool in the field. They don't call me J-Smooth for nothing fellas!!!