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PostPosted: Wed Jun 19, 2013 10:45 am 
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I don't normally have many problems with mid-game. I usually keep it as short as possible, then either go home with the girl or get out of there quick with a number/date lined up.

However, in a couple of weeks I'm visiting an old female friend who lives abroad now. We haven't seen each other since we were 16 (so my "gaming" wasn't up to much then), about 7 years ago. But she's pretty hot now, so it would be rude not to try my chances :wink:

However, do you need different strategies for mid-game when you're essentially forced to spend a whole week with a girl rather than bailing after 20 minutes or so? I'm staying at her flat, so I can't do the usual direct hit and run tactic of get the number/date/lay and then get out.


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PostPosted: Wed Jun 19, 2013 10:27 pm 
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I don't normally have many problems with mid-game. I usually keep it as short as possible, then either go home with the girl or get out of there quick with a number/date lined up.

However, in a couple of weeks I'm visiting an old female friend who lives abroad now. We haven't seen each other since we were 16 (so my "gaming" wasn't up to much then), about 7 years ago. But she's pretty hot now, so it would be rude not to try my chances :wink:

However, do you need different strategies for mid-game when you're essentially forced to spend a whole week with a girl rather than bailing after 20 minutes or so? I'm staying at her flat, so I can't do the usual direct hit and run tactic of get the number/date/lay and then get out.
You need to just be an interesting person for her to hang out with... Have interesting shit to talk about. If you don't have interesting shit to talk about, find interesting shit to talk about. Escalate kino to keep yourself out of the friend zone... it's pretty easy when she is forced to spend a whole week with you. Ever see Groundhog Day? If you fuck up one day, you kinda have the next day to redeem yourself. Attraction with women is like a balloon. You've gotta keep it pumped up enough so it floats but not so much where it pops... Or don't let it get deflated. It's a balance. Once you pop the balloon, you fucked up the attraction.


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PostPosted: Wed Jun 19, 2013 10:32 pm 
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agreed with magic method.

If you lead a decent life, you shouldn't need a routine for "mid game"

just go with the flow, empty mind, small talk and dig deeper into her topics. I can talk forever like this without it fizzling.

was hard at 1st though, but you should be normal things like watching movies, hanging out with mates, going out, going to restaurants, going on holiday..

This naturally gives plenty of "mid game" and chat, all you gotta do is escalate eventually when there is a good vibe.

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PostPosted: Wed Jun 19, 2013 10:36 pm 
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agreed with magic method.

If you lead a decent life, you shouldn't need a routine for "mid game"

just go with the flow, empty mind, small talk and dig deeper into her topics. I can talk forever like this without it fizzling.

was hard at 1st though, but you should be normal things like watching movies, hanging out with mates, going out, going to restaurants, going on holiday..

This naturally gives plenty of "mid game" and chat, all you gotta do is escalate eventually when there is a good vibe.

Exactly...

For example... "do you think mermaids are real...?" I saw this really interesting documentary on discovery channel the other day that they apparently found mermaids. Check it out. There is alot of interesting shit in there. I could talk about that for hours. And one topics leads to the next, which leads to the next, which leads to the next... Escalate kino. Next thing you know, you are balls deep inside her.


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PostPosted: Wed Jun 19, 2013 10:41 pm 
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Agreed.

if you spent all week watching RSD's blueprint decoded.

you are in trouble since your mind is warped into PUA lala land ha.

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