Neg and treat her like one of the guys. Point out positive attributes of OTHER women. If she has a small chest, point out how hot you think some chick is that walks by with big breasts. You don't have to even mention the body parts, but she'll catch on. But hands down, absolutely stop with the chase.

yea,i would advise to stop cuddling and other stuff,you will only feel rejected and used in the future.

ahh,Nice one

hmm its difficult to tell,its a possibility,
if she is virgin then she probably is timid around the subject of sex because she has never done it,she may be one of those chicks who won't do it till a certain age or till marriage.

try and use some verbal seductive techniques:like use more descriptive words in your stories,
here is a link to one video about verbal seduction: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cYbWm_7wQxc
its only link i could find verbal seduction.hope it helps you.

happy Sarging

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Yeah I need to man up and stop this sissy crap of cuddles and massages. Going to stop chasing her and game other girls. I will leave her alone now and just accept the fact that we are just friends and move on.

Almost 3 months wasted trying to get her just have to accept the fact that I failed on this occasion and move on. Thanks for all the tips guys they have been extremely useful. Will know what to do from the start next time round.

3 months were not wasted you learned a ton... that experience was exactly what you needed...you have learned something that could not be learned any other way - not from the books anyway...some people attend to 4 years on university and they learn less than what you achieved in only 3 months...

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We have all been here. You are most likely fucked and not in a good way as someone said. You need to just stop hanging out with her all the time and feeding into her bs. You need to start shutting her down, not playing into all these conversations etc. etc.

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SERIOUSLY WTF!
Twice now she keeps rubbing her leg against my dick I reciprocate with rubbing her pussy with mine, this is while I'm lying on the couch trying to watch a film. After 30 minutes of this extremely arousing footplay I try to go in for it and she says she doesn't feel the same. Like Wtf if she doesn't feel the same why does she initiate?

I'm not complaining I really enjoyed it but why would she then say she doesn't the feel the same.?

I tried to stop with playing into her bs but she played the footplay card and I gave into temptation. Feel confused and confidence shattered, I never used to think I was ugly thought I was average nothing special but definitely not ugly and now when I look I the mirror I don't think/feel the same.

Fuck I sound like a little bitch! I know! but I feel like shit and I know I need to stop hanging out with her but it's so difficult, I feel like I need constant validation from her. Its hard, I know what needs to be done but I'm having difficulty actually following through with it.

Sorry for venting, just need to vent sometimes.

Dude. Did you read what everyone said? Don't give in. When she rubs your dick move away. That's your only chance man. She is playing you and getting off on it. Don't let her, play her back. Show her you completely lost interest, that you don't even want her touching you.

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WOW!

Is this Slut ever ass fucking your brain!

It's not you Bro! That's the good news.

The bad news is you keep falling for it.

Fucking Mind Games

Some women are just teases who love the feeling of the chase. They enjoy the start and stop action and how it affects a man, often turning him into a willing slave – ready to do anything for her or say anything that pleases her, in the hope that she will give up that PUSSY!!. This can get very tiring for and frustrating for a guy and depending on how much you like her, you bro, need to decide whether she is worth the hassle.

Obviously in some twisted fucked up way you think she IS! (she is NOT btw!)

Otherwise you wouldn't keep doing it.

The definition of insanity, is doing the same thing over and over, expecting a different outcome!

If you don't have the sack to quit it, try this:

FLIP THE SCRIPT ON HER CRAZY ASS!

The best strategy is to reverse the situation on her. Get her all worked up with some passionate kissing and when she grabs your penis, or pulls the ol' dick rub routine, tell her “Wait...not yet...I don't feel that way about you” and then slow things down to a hug. Wait a minute or two, then get start once again by getting her all worked up with slow kissing (not passionate, strong kissing like before). When she tries to grab your lower-regions again, say, "this is wrong, I don't think we should!" Rinse repeat, then “Okay, just for a little bit, but we are stopping after a minute...” Good luck trying to get HER to stop!

If it doesn't work, YOU End the encounter. YOU Write the story.

Stop being a pussy puppet.

It's going to take all of you manly MAN BALLS to pull this off.

Can you?

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So it's been a few days now since you guys Advised me on what to do.
Here is what has happened.

I stopped with everything..... Touching, cuddling, massages, kissing.. Etc
She asked me last night if there was a problem? Because I have been very cold with her. I just told her that I have no feelings for you!
So she got really upset saying she enjoyed hanging out with me knowing that I liked her (using me to make her self feel better basically! ).

So I told her I think it is best if we part ways and travel on our own from this point onwards, she got really mad started sulking and went home, I didn't even ask how she was feeling usually when she is upset I'm constantly trying to cheer her up but last night I didn't give a damm.

Don't know if i handled the situation well, but it's done now our friendship is over and well hopefully we will part ways. She always made me feel like I should feel privileged to hang out with her.

Hopefully this is the end of this story I feel like shit too but I'm sure a month apart and I'll be as good as ever.

HAHA GREAT EXPERIENCE BRO!

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in my mind,you handled that situation pretty good.You were honest,saying you had no feelings for her.which was really good and you had to be blunt man.you got confidence and ended it with her,if you didnt,she would just play you even further. to quote Heywood Jablowme Some women are just teases who love the feeling of the chase. They enjoy the start and stop action and how it affects a man, often turning him into a willing slave – ready to do anything for her or say anything that pleases her, in the hope that she will give up that PUSSY!!. This can get very tiring for and frustrating for a guy and depending on how much you like her, you bro, need to decide whether she is worth the hassle.

to be honest she isnt worth it man,she aint worth your time or money.

Give yourself a month to reflect and relax but dont think of her that will further your feeling of depression.
get your coat,get some buds,go to a club,pick up some hot chicks and go fucking crazy!!!!.you will have a better time with trusted mates because i can guarantee you,you will just feel terrible because 'this girl' can just turn you on and off like a switch. trust me when i say i was there.

go out and make a name for yourself,nameless hero

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