So I went to this strip club for the first time and met a stripper (Same age) who just started working for 2 months now and got her number without having to pay her anything (Lap Dance, Drink) while I was with my friends. I been calling her and texting every other day. I was supposed to pick her up to hangout but I decide not to. She didn't remind me that we where supposed to hangout. I text her about her job before she goes to work like " Alright get ready for the cute guys " Then she reply's " Lol what cute guys?? ". Also one time I called her at 4:00 Am when she just finished work and she answers the phone while we have a conversation, When she answered the phone I said " Your awake? You should go to bed " She reply's saying " Ha ha No ". Also during that convo she thought I was at a party because I called her late and I said " Let's reach a party together? " She reply's " Well you gotta tell me two weeks ahead of time " So I keep texting and calling her while she answers and texts back. I haven't been to her job (Stripclub) since I met her (Two weeks).

Just by reading this do you think she's into me or playing me? I neg her a lot and she likes it she replys " Lol " or " Lmao "

My Questions

She into me or playing me?
Should I go to her work by myself and see her?
Would it be weird if I even go to her work if she likes me?
Would she be jealous, a little?

Thank you in advance

So many questions...you only need one answer: ask her to hang out in person, not at her work, try to escalate. If she reacts positively, continue. If not, take a step back and then try again. If you still get a negative response then move on.

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First off, do not fall in love with the stripper...

Her life is probably complicated, she needs money, maybe excitement, she has a kid, whatever her reason is to strip is irrelevant...But you already know the type of personality she has. She most likely can't be tamed and will do her thing her way. Whatever to each his own...you should understand first what you want which should be to get laid and/or have a cool stripper fuck friend. Dont think she will quit and runaway with you or you will control her or show her affection and she will fall for you.

secondly, it sounds like you are in a good position and she is in fact into you. If anything you blew it and delayed your chances by not picking her up or whatever the first time (could have helped in the long run too though). But I would stick with it and get that party in the schedule. Eventually you will meet up, but I wouldn;t read to into it because her life is probably hectic. Bottom line is shes responding and with interest.

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Here is the quick and dirty answers:

1.) She into you? I would say yes. It's been two weeks and your still communicating. Dancers are notorious for not having strong attention spans, but she still seems to be interested in whatever you are throwing out. But that window of opportunity is dwindling fast. As I said, the attention is not there with our pole dancing princesses.

2.) I would suggest bringing a wingman. Better yet, bring a woman with you. Represents great value in a strip club. But, you can do it by yourself. In any case, tell her before hand. Don't surprise her. Because you could be the one getting the surprise when she is in the champagne room the whole night with a customer.

3.) No, just play it cool. Think of it as a compliment when other men are hitting on her. Because they will. Like 100 times a night. Be secure with it. Tell her go and dance and make your money, I will be here waiting!

4.) I don't think she would be jealous. As long as you are not getting lap dances left and right. Be cool. Just like she will talk to guys, she knows you will talk to other women there. It's all good. In the end, I don't think she would be jealous, she may actually be more attracted if you talk to other women, but still have an eye for her.

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Remember, Always act like you have been there...

Thank you all for your honest answers and will keep them in consideration. I will just go to her work without my friends and text her saying " I'm gonna stop by, Don't mind me "

ALSO I have similar post about this girl in my other post, Depth information if you are interested in helping me.

Thank you fellow PUA's