Alright so there is this girl from work, we have hung out a few times and I have gotten what I think are a few IOI's and there is a farewell party for a girl from work on Thursday. I mentioned how I was going to drink at this event and whether or not she would give me a lift in (she was keen to drive in herself and not get a ride).

Anyway she has never been to my place so I have to Facebook message her my address. What I'm wondering is if I should give her my number as well saying something along the lines of "in case you have trouble finding my place"

Just wondering whether I should do that or not.

Don't even bother. She is already coming to pick you up. You don't NEED her phone number nor does she NEED yours.

She would though if she does get lost since she has never actually been to my house before. Surely that would be reason enough to at least giver her my number in case she does get lost

Overthinking jesus. You give her your address. Then "Here is my number just in case" That's it. It's all logistical reasons here nothing to do with game or attraction since she's already going to ur place.

Hey, I just met you. And this is crazy. But here's my number. So call me maybe.

Hahah you guys crack me up. See that's how shit I am with this shit when I'm into this chick. Going to ask her to dinner anyway when we are out tomorrow see how that goes

Alright so gave her my number she rang, picked me up and we went to this work party. Got the lift back home and in the car we were talking about how she hasn't really gone out much and used to all the time so I was saying that if she wants to go out she should let me know and i'd probably be up for it.

Then i sent her a text after getting inside and after about 30 mins saying "when i said if you want to go out im keen too, i also meant if it were just the two of us". This was on Thursday night, its now Saturday night and zero response from her in regards to the text.

Worked today (in a bar where she is a waitress) and she was acting completely different to normal, basically ignoring me when I was acting basically the same towards her. WTF has happened here?

You fucked up in a couple of places...

1. You put the ball in her court by saying "if she wants to go out that you would probably be up for it." Instead, what you should have said, assuming that you know she was into you... Set a date that the two of you would go out. Honestly, you should have found some common ground between the two of you and seeded a date that way instead of saying you are going to be her drinking buddy.

2. You texted her 30 minutes after she dropped you off? That's needy as shit lol Fuck... when I have sex with a girl, I don't even call her for 2 days. She did NOTHING for you and you still texted her... and also, you texted her something that you could have said in the car. Which in her eyes shows that you are also too needy.

3. She is acting weird because you creeped her out. Which allows me to say that she wasn't attracted to you... You showed more interest than she did.

Don't text her anymore. Go game other women. Just keep acting normal at work... Don't even think about her. Try again with her in a month or so and see how she reacts.

Yea sounds good mate, it jut really pisses me off since she did show interest more than me early on and now it's just not happening