I met this girl out and things were great, it couldn't have gone better but with her being a hb10 and an amazing personality she was a pretty blunt texter, I would text her first and although she agreed to a date, the next day when I text her to arrange it I got no reply, I've never had a girlfriend and I have high standards which this girl met, she is perfect to me and I cannot get her out of my head, I know she was interested for giving me so many IOIs when me met, her mother was even there at the time, and she her mum even bought me a drink, everything was to perfect, I feel as if I love her and I know it sounds crazy and there is no doubt my needyness and persistence has fucked this up, I was simply to full on too soon, I know this, and all I want to do now is text her again and ask what's wrong? have I done done something wrong?, but I'm not going to as I know this is going to be the worst possible thing to do and it's creepy, but I have two questions I want answered here and please try to help me. I know I've blown it and I should let it go but if there is anyway or anything I can do to start to get her to give me a chance then tell me. I know this sounds AFC but I'm so fucking mad at myself for messing this up, and secondly, how do I be persistent with these girls who want to be worked for, without seeming needy or creepy, thanks

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

I can see what your saying but does that mean I should just leave it?, in future surely a girl who has interest in me that is playing hard to get I shouldn't just ignore if she's being blunt, then I risk losing her, or do I fight all my urges to message her and she will eventually contact me, becuase in my opinion it's us men who have to do all the initiating for the high value girls who realise they are of a high calibre (not just their looks, but they're backtound, morales, personality etc:) or is not a case of simply using text game to get her more comfortable and attracted to me?

In the early stages, if you came off needy and creepy, there is almost no chance to come back from that. And it's not worth the effort. Continued persistence will only make her want to change her number, block your calls and file a PPO.

Opening and initiating contact is fine, if you didn't do that not a damn thing would happen!

Saying this:
And this:
Shortly after meeting her, and having a drink with her and her Mom.

Bro that even creeped ME out!

The lesson?

Don't fall in love with every HB with tits that says hello to you!

Tighten up your shit! You'll get plenty more chances.

Your already closer, you got this fuck up out of the way!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

yeh ok thanks for the advice bro!