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PostPosted: Mon Jun 10, 2013 1:22 pm 
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I going to try to make this as brief as possible. I few months ago a student teacher at a school started showing interest. She is without a doubt a hb 9 but is slightly on the dingy side, has tons of guy friends and loads of options though. At the time I was working on a LDR so I kept things light and fun with hot student teacher girl. She ended up adding me on facebook and always initiated the convo's she then gave me her # and we started texting back and forth. The whole time I was seeing an LDR so I didn't make any advances toward the student teacher until a few weeks into texting and asked her over to my place to hang. She came and things went so well she texted me directly after saying she enjoyed getting to know me and wanted to see me again. After hanging out she would constantly text me throughout the day and always wish me goodnight, or when she went out that see missed me and was thinking about me etc. This went on for weeks but I was still seeing LDR so I moved slow with student teacher girl, but she continued to chase me and tell coworkers how much she like me etc. Anyway around the same time her student teaching was done my LDR ended. Student teacher continued texting and asking my plans and eventually asked about meeting up and mentioned watching a movie at my place, she even said she would pick some up and I said I would get some beers to go along with the movie, we set a specific date and everything. Anyway once I accepted the date she stopped texting as much and on the day of the movie date she texted saying she wouldn't get off work until late and "would let me know if she could still make it" she then flaked on the date saying she was to tired. I admit I got a little needy and said something dumb like well "you owe me a movie in the not to distant future" and she said she promised she would make it up to me. The next night she texted me after work and said how she just wanted to watch a movie because she was so tired so I again invited her over but she again declined saying she was to tired. We texted back and forth a few days more but she was not initiating and clearly was losing interest so I froze her out for 4 days. I then texted her about seeing one of her former students and we texted back and forth after but clearly things had changed because she had stopped asking my plans, what I was up to and telling me about her day. Anyway I had given up until she one day texted about laying out and told me she was off for the day from work so I made a last ditch effort and asked her out again, but she said she already had plans but we would get together soon, which seemed like bs. We have not been speaking as much now and things have gone really cold. What the fuck should I do? If anything? I have pretty much given up and deleted her number so I know I won't drunk text her. I Need Help and fast, I should have came on this forum months ago.


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 11, 2013 6:18 am 
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When she said she was too tired to come to your place, you should have said. ..

"I'll come over to your place and watch movies, give me your address".

She was ready for it. She was wanting you to make an effort this time, even though she flaked last time.

Some might see this as a chump move. But it's not. Clearly she was hinting for you to come to her cause she probably was tired from work.

A Lot of guys miss the small subtle clues. Is ok. You're new. You'll get it soon.

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 11, 2013 1:35 pm 
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She definitely wasn't trying to get me over to her place. She lives at home and her mom was there.


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 11, 2013 1:51 pm 
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So, you knew she was interested in you and you didnt close.
And now you're asking what you did wrong?

Easy answer, you didnt close.

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 11, 2013 1:55 pm 
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SO what the fuck do I do now? Definitely want to close and was going to try once she came over but now I feel like its to late. She has went super cold, still responds to texts( I haven't contacted for a while though) and its been three weeks since she flaked.


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