Hi guys

In a nutshell: Trouble with organising and transitioning on a day 2, some distance between you and the girl, good template ideas for the day 2?

Bit of background:
Because I like to meet girls not really in my area (there isn't much excitement around here and because I don't like to shit where I eat), but in the city and around my uni which is at least half an hour away, it makes it hard for me to take the party back to my place, so I'll usually have to get her number and organise a day 2.

Because its easier to transition back to your place after if you live close by... for the day 2, I tell her she should come down here (to my area and park her cark at mine) and we'll get something to eat (any other good excuses to get her down here and conveniently park her car at my place haha?). Even though I know its definitely a larger investment for her (30-40 minutes out of her way), I just do it and hope that they follow my lead haha. And maybe 50% of the time it works without question, they just say um er okay cool haha.. but the other 50% of time she doesn't have a car, she's going to be in the city earlier that day (making it more practical to meet at least half way), or because she's just not comfortable with it and wants to go somewhere closer.. and it ends up just being like grabbing something to eat or coffee halfway. And because I don't really know many of the places halfway there's nowhere really to transition after coffee and we're usually just stuck in the 'getting to know you' sorta phase and its easier to just call it day there --> I should hopefully then be able to get a larger investment for day 3 and get her to come to my area.. but it seems like a lot of f*cking effort as sometimes its kinda hard to connect on the day 2..

My question is what is the best way to go about planning and transitioning on a day 2 located halfway between both your areas (at least 20 min, which would mean that you couldn't conveniently just "stop by" your house to "show her something" without going out of their way). Generally these girls are like 21 or so, so they still live with their parents (i live with housemates and can't afford to move closer SPAM).. does anyone have tips for laying girls while the girl's parents are home haha?.. but seriously, its a bit of a dilemma.. if I could get them comfortable enough to bang in my car, public toilet, or alley way/park or something that would be perfect (did it once in the mens toilets of a club.. but was awkward as f*ck taking her in there while others were there judging her.. there would be like 0.1% chance of that happening whilst she's sober)... does anyone have any game advice on that lol?

Has anyone else had issues with planning a practical day 2 when you and her live some distance away? What are some other good mini date activities or whatever to keep the day 2 going with a girl? Its not like you can both just go to a bar nearby (whose going to drive?). What about some other good excuses for the girl to come to your area?

Or am I stuck with the inevitable day 3 in this case..

I would love some to hear some feedback on what innovative ideas you guys have had when faced with this problem.

Thanks in advance

Alex

It's gonna be tough on your gas.
My advice is, pick her up at her place. Screw the meet halfway stuff. If you meet halfway she's gonna have to worry about her car if you take her somewhere and 2 pple driving to your place in different cars is awkward and can trigger LMR.
So pick her up. Find a place halfway that's cool. Talk in the car, joke etc. Drive the 30 mins to the halfway place with her in your car. Have the date there. Be fun and make it an adventure. Then have a place that's about 10 mins from your place. Drive her there. Then back to your place.

Hey mate thanks for the reply.

That sounds like a way better idea with heaps more control. But you got any examples of interesting/cool places you usually can justify moving the date along to at night? I was thinking thrift stores, ikea, or westfield, etc. during the day.. but at night I'm kinda lost.. coz in my area, I reckon I'd have to pretend to be interested in something BS near my area haha.. there is sweet f*ck all around. I'm gonna have to start getting some more interesting shit in my room too.. don't think my childhood stamp collection is gonna cut it anymore haha.

I mean you can go anywhere. I find the key to dates is bouncing around, talking and kino. Ice cream, drinks, even a walk is cool. Being spontaneous is the adventure. I've had dates in Target, walking around random neighboorhoods. But I'm a talker and used to finding ways to make it fun. If you can't and want to save money, I'd do 1st place (half way) ice cream as its cheap and second place would be a bar near to your place. Dont tell her beforehand. Tell her it's a surprise we're you're going. Then take her for ice cream. Dont do food. Touch on the date flirtaciously and grab her hand if you feel its on to lead her somewhere new.

If you want to be extra sneaky, stop by your place for something before you "take her home." Give the tour (you don't need anything special) and play a quick drinking game once she gets comfortable. DISCLAIMER: DONT GET HER DRUNK FOR SEX. Then act like you want to sober up before driving her back, put on tv or something and make a move. If she's cool so far, say she's gotta sleep over because you dont want to drive back drunk. Escalate. Don;t be too preoccupied with looking for go signals, just pull back if you get a red.