I decided today i would go out to my local city, im in england btw Manchester! I had never really expierienced approach anxiety before, im used too meeting girls online but thats a big pain in the arse! Most of my gfs in the past had been from online or we met through friends.

I walk around for at least an hour, thinking up reasons why that girl is not right. Shes on the phone, she looks mean etc haha. I decide to take a break i sit down on a wall and have and cigerette. A hot blonde, is walking towards me as she passes i shout out HI, she smiles and keeps walking, Nothing else would come out of me!

Im pretty happy haveing said hi lol. I walk around a bit more because it isnt good enough just saying hi, i see this cute asian girl walking on the other side of the road. I cross walk in front of her and comment on her bag, i tell she looks cute and she's giggleing and that, great! I ask her were shes from, then if she's single but she had a boyfriend. i asked his name she told me no hesitation i didnt think she was lieing. I tell her its nice meeting her and go to walk off, she follows and i tease her about ruining my exit. I probably should have asked for her number.

Later im heading back to the train station, i decided to try and indirect opener on these two asians girls ones ugly ones cute. I ask them directions to the train station, they tell me and i couldnt think of anything to say. I like being direct its easier and shows confidence.

How do you go direct when theres more than one girl?

Any other tips would be great.

Finz

oh my god! . i bet you are so young

Congratulations! You popped the cold approach cherry!

As for going direct with two+ sets, I'd say just go for it. Just do what you would as if the girl's by herself, but also acknowledge her friend(s). This is why it's called "direct" approach. You're letting it all hang out. So, for example, if you see two girls walking down the street, you can go up to your target and say something along the lines like "Hey, I just came by to say Hi because I thought you're cute (or that outfit looks really good on you...or whatever works for you)". She'll say "thank you" if she finds you friendly, and then you can transition into "So, where are you guys heading to?".

I usually do indirect with two+ sets daygame. For instance, I'll approach a group of ladies, and ask for directions and transition into something like "you guys don't look like you're from here, lemme guess. You're from XYZ"...

First of all a girl telling you she has a boyfriend can be a sign of many things but she may in fact of been "lieing" to you. Dude, read The Game by Neil Strauss. It's inspiring and will give a a sense of direction. Then read The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women into Bed. That will give you a basic structure of social dynamics.

Read these books for inspiration and instruction but don't become one of those people that just read about Pick Up and never go out to apply their knowledge. Just a fair warning because some people go down this path.

I must give you props for these approaches. The more you put yourself uncomfortable situations, the better you will be able to function in them. You've really taken a good step toward progress. Keep it up!!!

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Nice job! I did my first cold approaching about a month ago and I had all the same doubts, but you go for it the first time, you start getting an adrenaline rush and it's easier from there. Not far from you actually either, I'm in Lancs