after attracting any girl with routines or by any other way i start feeling comfortable with the girl because i kind of know her pretty much now, but my problem is that i don't know what to talk about in a normal time i mean what are the subjects i should talk about and what attitude i should take , my question is more about relationships for long term , because one i'm not sure if the subject i'm talking about is attractive i become frustrated ,
and the attitude a know we have to always be confident but what else do i have to look like serious guy or a man of high energy ?
how do you guys deal with all that stuff ?

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yes you have to be confident. You have I have the mindset that it doesn't matter if you get her number or not because either eh you'll still be happy. As for low or high energy, I'd just say be you if your more comfortable now talking ask much do that but practice on a low slow tone . I myself mix up the two I'm high energy like to meet people and have a good time, but when I first walk into a place , I walk in like I own the place and I'm here to hve a good time not caring about anyone else. Girls find guys who act mysterious really sexy, I learned tag body language is the major part of the battle. What you say is minor in comparison, just don't get goofy if your going for humor don't make it seem like your trying to hard. Just make a witty comment here and there. To keep a conversation going , ask open ended questions. Make sure o listen to what they're saying and add to it. After a while change the topic, flirt, repeat. It's really easier done then said haha I'm a natural type. I'm just leading to be concious of what I do when I get women. but you'll get there just don't be afraid of rejection, everyone gets rejected even brad Pitt and George clooney.