I have tried a lot, I have picked up new hobbies & hung out with my friends more. But there is this girl that I cannot accept the fact I didn't get. I think it was because I was so close and messed up that bothers me. She's like a drug to me. And one of the only girls that can get my heart pumping when I see her. I am like addicted to her. She's on my mind and it's hard to get rid of it. Like a freaking spell. I didn't even like her that much at first I kind of didn't even really care for her. But then I got close and allowed myself to invest further and further and it screwed up. Any advice? yes I need to have more self worth and let her go. But I gotta know where to start.

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We all been there. It goes away. Just keep hitting on other girls, hanging out with friends etc, and eventually it will go away. There's no real secret.

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Alright thanks.

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Yesterday i saw a picture on facebook. It said don't ever try to fully understand everything about a woman, two things will happen : either you will go mad or you will fall in love. Both probably go hand in hand but just thought i'd drop that

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Yeah that makes sense, thanks for the reply dude and nice avatar picture! lmao

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I am in this very situation and was here before. Some good girlfriend of mine reminded me(it works exactly the same for them also): just keep doing your thing, it will continue like this for some time and all of the sudden it will disappear. It's a process that happens on a deeper level. Make fun of it as much as you can and just distract your mind with other good and useful things like training, reading and of course going out looking for new girls.

Hey,been there before,realised i couldn't let go but guess what, i did!!
and so can you!

The reason you are thinking of her is because you are pedestalling her,you think she is the best girl in the world,
she is better than everyone else and you want nothing else but her.

First:delete all reminding items you have of her,number,facebook-friend,anything and hide all pictures of her.Stop talking to her and ignore her if she talks to you.

Second: stop thinking like that,think about the negative things about her.(annoying laugh,kissed your best friend,very slutty,crooked nose,etc,etc but just anything bad about her).

Third:listen to songs that you like and think about the lyrics and the flow of the music,if they are songs that remind you of her,throw them into the listen-to-later music.eventually you can listen to that music and it wont remind you of her.

Fourth: talk to new girls,add them on facebook,friendster,what ever social-media site you are on
PLUS DELETE HER,make that your number one goal of today,when you sign on.
chat to a random girl on the street.talk to friends.Go on holidays with friends,get plastered and find yourself in the morning with a HB10 you scored last night

i hope this works for you,friend.
been in the same situation myself,but its easy to overcome.

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Thanks man! I am pretty much over her now. XD New phone without her number in it, unfollowed her on IG and deleted her pics. Appreciate it!

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You're only pining for her because she's completely ignoring you and doesn't want you in her life. LOSER.

ONEITIS.

im in the same situation right now. what bothers me was being so close and then nothing happened.
why can't you contact her again btw?

very glad to hear you are over that girl,i hope you find another HB soon

happy sarging

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