Ok we met at a bar, had a passionate conversation about traveling it was fun. I got her number then i left. 30 minutes later she text me an address talking about a bon fire. I was always home with the boys and nobody wanted to drive so I told her I'm sitting this one out and said dont worry we will see each other again . Then I text her the next day :::


Me: if you had to choose would you rather spend a few days in Spain teaching kids arts and crafts or 1 day in Spain learning how to speak español?

Her: ohh that's tough

Her: probably arts and crafts

Me: Yeah I can see you getting a little wild with the hand painting I know I would

Her: why so you ask?

Me: You can learn a lot about a person by the answers they give you haha , what are you up to?

I didn't get a reply , so I was just like whatever kept jamming and decided to wait a this week out and maybe run into her in town, if so great if not then ok. I've got other things to do anyways. Now when I texted I was just being natural. Should I freeze her out? Why, why not??! We get along real well when were in person and I can get creative. So drop some advice.

In experience you have to wait a few days in order to spike new interest. If you follow up again right after you last message, you'll appear a little bit too needy in her eyes.

To re-initiate contact I'd ignore past SMS history and tease her a little bit with something like: "Hey, sorry i missed our anniversary how’s things?" and if she responds positively you can follow up with something to set up a date like: "We are going to the cafe WhatEver, you and your friends should stop by."

What do you think?

RJH

yeah I haven't texted back in couple days, how do I ask her to pick me up without it being dlv? I have a job and ga money, won't get my license back till September.

it was really good (challenge) that you sat out the bonfire, but
why would you text her the next day? and
why would you text her that?

i text her the next day so a woman keeps thinking about you, but I don't text twice if they do t answer I just have t texted bak yet. No big deal, as for what to text yeah I could've texted something simpler which I will next time.

I like freezing out people who clearly aren't all that interested in me too, especially when I want to convince them how I'm not even worth getting to know. You should freeze-out women every chance you get, even if you've only gotten to a "hello" with them, drives them wild.

What you did was a classic example of "over-gaming". Not every text, word, etc. out of your mouth has to be game, nor do all of your actions.

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Yeah It does, when we first met when ha an engaging conversation for about 10 minutes , then I destroyed her friends shit test and her male friends cock block and then I walked away and mingled. Then I saw her later and let her know I was interested. She was so into me even more so after that.

yeah that's what I meant about a keeping it simple, well atleast now I know there is a name for that. Thanks for the comment.