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 Post subject: Annoying friend
PostPosted: Sat Jun 01, 2013 7:48 pm 
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There is one guy in our group, he's an absolute nightmare. The second somebody in our group starts to k-close a girl or even is just flirting, he makes it his mission to cock block and then try and steal the girl.

I wouldn't class him as an AMOG because he is cool guy, except when we all go out. All the guys in our group are really getting pissed with him.

The girl he tried to steal from me, I took her home and banged her in the same room as him (there are a few beds in this room btw) him as a "in your face" kinda thing. Didn't really change anything, not like I expected it to.

Any tips to deal with a decent guy but who likes to steal the women you're trying to pull?


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 Post subject: Re: Annoying friend
PostPosted: Sat Jun 01, 2013 7:54 pm 
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Ummm don't go out with him anymore....? lol it's pretty simple...


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 Post subject: Re: Annoying friend
PostPosted: Sat Jun 01, 2013 8:00 pm 
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If you banged a girl in the same room as him and he still didn't get it then nothing is really going to do it. Aside from asking him (...you have told him that it's annoying, right?) to stop, then the only thing left is to obviously not going out with him anymore. I don't understand how he can still be a cool dude but pull that kind of shit.

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 Post subject: Re: Annoying friend
PostPosted: Sat Jun 01, 2013 8:13 pm 
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Not really as simple as not going out with him. Seeing as our social group go clubbing on the same day every week he kinda knows, plus out of about pretty huge group we all go together someone will always end up inviting him.

And yes I've told him to stop being a prick. Looking for something I can say to make him feel a bit silly and shut up.


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 Post subject: Re: Annoying friend
PostPosted: Sat Jun 01, 2013 8:33 pm 
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Not really as simple as not going out with him. Seeing as our social group go clubbing on the same day every week he kinda knows, plus out of about pretty huge group we all go together someone will always end up inviting him.

And yes I've told him to stop being a prick. Looking for something I can say to make him feel a bit silly and shut up.

No... It really is that simple.

If you don't like your friends.... get new friends.
If you don't like your job... get a new job.
If you don't like your car... trade it in and get a different one.
If you don't like your house... Move.

YOU are the one who controls your life... Noone else. Surround yourself with people who are going to help build a better life for you. Not ass twats who are going to fuck you up and hold you back from getting the life you want.


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 Post subject: Re: Annoying friend
PostPosted: Sun Jun 02, 2013 2:17 am 
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Pull him aside and give him a few punches to the head.


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 Post subject: Re: Annoying friend
PostPosted: Sun Jun 02, 2013 5:19 am 
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Be direct and tell him as a group that this isn't acceptable behavior. If you address your concerns and he keeps doing the same shit get rid of him.


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 Post subject: Re: Annoying friend
PostPosted: Mon Jun 03, 2013 11:02 am 
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just try asking him when you go for a group of girls if he is interested in the girl you are going to go after, if he is, help him out, help him get that girl, help him meet her, introduce them, leave him occupied and go meet another girl, throw girls at him, show him you are not trying to compete, teach him by example how to be a good wing man, and when he is occupied, or if he is blown out (assuming he isn't too sensitive about it) or not interested, then it's fair game


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 Post subject: Re: Annoying friend
PostPosted: Mon Jun 03, 2013 6:39 pm 
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Punches to the head is great, I was close to doing it the other night. I have told him to stop, as have others, I guess I'll try to think of a way to humiliate him somehow.
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YOU are the one who controls your life... Noone else. Surround yourself with people who are going to help build a better life for you. Not ass twats who are going to fuck you up and hold you back from getting the life you want.
Whilst you're correct, I actually like all the friends I go out with. But they just happen to like this cock block (apart from a couple of them) so unless I'm going to abandon my entire social circle then I will end up seeing him again.


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 Post subject: Re: Annoying friend
PostPosted: Mon Jun 03, 2013 6:47 pm 
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Punches to the head is great, I was close to doing it the other night. I have told him to stop, as have others, I guess I'll try to think of a way to humiliate him somehow.
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YOU are the one who controls your life... Noone else. Surround yourself with people who are going to help build a better life for you. Not ass twats who are going to fuck you up and hold you back from getting the life you want.
Whilst you're correct, I actually like all the friends I go out with. But they just happen to like this cock block (apart from a couple of them) so unless I'm going to abandon my entire social circle then I will end up seeing him again.
LOL go out by yourself then dude.... make new friends. That's the beauty of pick up is you can make alot of new friends and meet alot of new people... better people than you are already hanging out with.

I've been practicing pick up for almost 5 years now and I will tell you, I've left most of my old friends behind. Not because I was being an asshole... But more so because I have met people that have helped me build a better lifestyle for myself and those friends that got left behind chose not to better themselves. They still hang out at the same local townie bar, working their same menial jobs, live with their parents or in shit box apartments, drive shit box cars... because they have chosen NOT to keep up with me and the lifestyle I want to live. They don't bring any value to my life any more. It may sound cruel but that is the way the world works...


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