Embarrassed to Approach



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PostPosted: Mon Jun 03, 2013 7:28 am 
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Hey players. I've read tons about fear of rejection. While I have no fear of being rejected by the girls I approach, I am sometimes embarrassed to think that the other people in the bar/cub I'm in are going to see me approaching and potentially getting rejected. I've realized lately that I'm embarrassed by nearly everyone who I think may see me approach, from other club goers to bouncers to bartenders. It doesn't matter who it is. If I feel like they will see me approach a group of girls, I get kind of embarrassed. NOTE: I've noticed this problem is worse when I'm in a bar or club that is not very crowded. In crowded environments, I have more energy and don't care at all. Do you guys have any tips for overcoming this embarrassment?


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 03, 2013 1:50 pm 
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just try to change, you don't have to be embarrest, why you care what other people think? you should think like this, and more important don't think about rejection, if you don't think about it, you have less chance to meet rejection


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 03, 2013 2:24 pm 
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That's OK man, know that it's just a block. But really you should be approaching just for yourself, to build your momentum. For nothing else. Accept that you approach and then just do it. You have to jump into the deep end.


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