Are you playing dumb or just plain dumb?

Let's look at it another way. So what if you wait for her to re-initiate the "what are we?" talk? Is she going to run away to another boy? Considering the solid game you've been running I find it highly unlikely, if not impossible. At least, if she would, she'd be showing signs. And even in the unlikely scenario that she DOES go to another boy, it wouldn't have been because you were hesitant to make it official.

So. As I said. I would first recommend that you drop your jealousy tactics and hope that she brings up the talk somehow. But if you're losing sleep over this should-I-or-I-should-I-not scenario you find yourself in, just go talk to her -- you won't be AFC because of that.

thanks betamax!