I just stumbled across some threads that share basically the same problems:

-dates are flaking
-can't escalate
-not sure whether it's on or not
-girl sending mixed signals don't know how to react

These are not typical for the ultimate beginner who has AA and tries getting numbers.

1. Flaking

This is mainly a problem of improper SCREENING

What do I mean? You might have gotten the girl's number, but really she's not interested in meeting you. She just gave you her number because she wanted to get rid of you, you tricked her into it with some sneaky routine, or she might have liked you but she was NOT INVESTED enough in you to go on a date with you.

The solution is quite simple: Don't go for numbers. Go for the fclose. If you at least make out heavily she should already be invested enough to reply to your texts and meet you.

You need to make sure that you don't waste time with girls who are not DTF, or not relationship material. That's why screening is extremely important. As you go out more and pay close attention to signals, you can get terrifyingly good at screening, and know just from how a woman looks at you that she will be spinning on your dick tonight.

2. Can't escalate

One may ask why I'm talking about this on intermediate level. Intermediate should mean you can pull women so you definitely should be able to escalate. There are a few cases of why you are not able to escalate, and I'm going to go through them one by one.

a) You don't dare to/you convince yourself you're just not a touchy guy.

Well, be a touchy guy. I'm sure you like touching women why don't you do it, then? You can't be afraid of rejection when escalating. It's completely fucked up if you are. Start slowly, and go as far as she lets you. If she stops, take a step back, and continue. Seems basic, and it's REALLY as simple as this. This was the beginner part of this post.

b) Girl is rejecting to your escalation.

This is either a screening problem, or a calibration problem.

If the woman you're trying to escalate on is not DTF, you can try all day, be a Pick-up God, and you'll fail. I can't stress enough the importance of proper screening, it's a key element in gaming, and it eliminates the "numbers" from the term "numbers game".

Also, if you don't calibrate well you may come off as creepy. I guess you don't like being touched by creepy people. Well guess what? Neither do girls! Calibration also comes with experience.

Overall solution: Go out more, and practise screening and calibration!

c) Girl lets you escalate for a while, then resists to go further. (This also includes LMR)

The problem here is either screening(start seeing a theme here?) or frame control

If you don't frame the interaction like there's gonna be sex, then the girl may be responding to friendly touches and things like that, but she will not let you touch her inner tighs, and kiss her. I will get to sexual framing in a later part of this post, refer to that regarding this problem.

3. You're not sure whether it's on or not.

I can understant this being a problem. At some point the girl showed you interest and you may even succeeded in going on a date but then it was quite numb. Just casual talk. Then she texts you excitedly a minute after that she had a great time, and you don't know wtf is going on.

The solution is very simple: Always ASSUME it is on!

This way you will frame everything that sex is gonna happen. You will no longer care about fluff talk because you will know she's into you and your goal is to move things towards your bedroom. If your screening is right, you will have a quite high success rate.

In the beginning you might be rejected a lot, but as you get better at screening dtf women with the assumption it is on you're on the right track of banging more women or finding your SO.

4. Girl is sending mixed signals, you don't know how to react.

This might look similar to the above one but really it's not. Mixed signals refer exlusively to the girl's behaviour not to the whole interaction like before.

So here we're talking about that at one time the girl seems to be all over you, the other time she's not responding.

Most of the time this is because your frame is not strong enough.

The girl is somewhat interested in you, but don't respect you enough. So she starts playing games to see how you react. The solution is not so simple as in the other cases because it depends on a lot of factors like how much the girl is interested in you, what kind of IOIs she sends, how old is she etc. etc.
The easiest way to avoid this is to have a strong frame of a sexual man.

Now let's talk about framing the interaction because it's being preached everywhere that "You should have good frame control", "Work on your frame control", "The frame of the interaction is that she wants you" but there's a lack of explenation regarding this...

The frame of the interaction is mostly what you THINK.

General principle of natural game. Your thoughts will have a great effect on your voice tonality, and body language. You'll generally appear more attractive to the girl if you think she's already yours.

That being said we come to another important point here. And this is HOW YOU PICTURE YOURSELF.

Start importing this key thing into yourself. Look in the mirror every morning and tell yourself 10 times:

"I'm a sexual man, and I express it!!"

Now let's get a little practical and see how you could be more sexual. See, lot of my AFC friends I'm trying to help told me this:"Yeah dude I was totally trying to be sexual, but she just didn't give me any opportunity"

TOTAL BULLSHIT

There's always opportunity. The most innocent fluff talk can be turned into a monstrous flirt in seconds if you know how to do it properly.

I'll give you some examples:

This one's from a text that was not easy to dig up from quite a while ago since I've been together with my LTR for 7 months and I'm loyal.
You might ask: How the hell did I get away with that? Without building rapport? I was a total ass anyway, and just wtf? The key is:
I behaved liked this with her from the start. She knew what to expect from me when she got a text and I've built enough rapport the day we met
Also... look at these texts. I just don't give a damn about it at all. I was just entertaining myself. She could have decided to stop texting me ANYTIME and I would not have a single fuck to give.

Now the other examples are not exact. They're more like examples on how to turn things sexual right after the opening with the most common responses from the girls I had gamed.

Example #1
Girl: What do you do?
Me: Can you keep a secret?
Girl: I guess...
Me: I'm a doctor.
Girl: Why should I keep that a secret?
Me: Because it's fucking hot and all the girls will want me here, and I'm only concerned with one of them right now.
Girl: You're one smooth talker...
Me: Thank you. I've gotten rid of your clothes at least ten times in my head since I saw you.
Girl: Are you insane? Don't talk like that in public!
Me: You're totally right. We should be leaving soon. But first I want to know how adventurous you are.
Girl: By how?
*kiss her*

Example #2
Girl: How old are you?
Me: 79.
Girl: Good shape for your age.
Me: My super senses tell me this was a compliment.
Girl: You have great super senses.
Me: How long are we staying?
Girl: What???
Me: Joke, sweetie, joke... Let's go dance!
*grab her hand and start dancing--->escalate--->make out--->#close--->sext---->lay*

Example #3
Girl: I used to work at a nursery for elders.
Me: Geez. lot of horny grandpas hitting on you, then?
Girl: Thankfully, no. They're quite respectful, unlike others.
Me: Well they didn't get laid, now did they?
Girl: Don't get your hopes up.
Me: Whatever. You're too young for me anyways.
Girl: 'Cause how old are you?
Me: I'm 22. And you must be 18? 19?
Girl: I'm 23, jerk.
Me: I thought you were younger, you should take that as a compliment.
Girl: Sure...
Me: Come, we're grabbing a drink.
Girl: Will you pay?
Me: Only if we play a game.
Girl: What game?
Me: Body shots.

I think everyone knows body shots from Keys to the VIP... It's just gold. It almost got me a threesome once, only one of the girls' drunktard bf showed up and ruined the moment.

If you look at the above examples it's clear it's not for newbies. You must have a very confident body language and voice tonality to express this amount of sexuality without coming across as fucking weird. Practise with lighter stuff. Start with innocent looking innuendos, but always push it to the limit. If you don't get slapped/spilled drink over you: YOU'RE NOT IMPROVING. You only learn calibration and screening by consecutively SCREWING IT UP.

Happy sarging my friends!

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