| What's up PUA? Glad to be a new member of these forums in hopes that my game could improve. As of right now, my game is starting to come together a bit: I'm starting to talk to a few girls here and there, my text game is pretty decent might I say, and I'm trying to learn how to make female friends. And after two girls( one I had a crush one and she liked me too, but I was afraid of losing her as a friend, etc. and another one who showed me signals) I've tried talking to, I'm starting to realize what I'm doing wrong and signals to look for.
I've heard female friends is a huge part to your game and is everything but detrimental to it. But how do I effectively make female friends the right way? I've been slacking in that department, what are some good ways to make friends with the opposite sex? I've had a little success, I've made a friend with a new girl in our school, she went to my prom with me (she was gorgeous ), some great pictures,etc. She has a good personality from what I've gathered in the past month or so but there's a problem: She has a boyfriend, he's in another state but one nonetheless. I would say we're good friends at this point, she's been to my house(after prom) and met my parents, etc. and talked with them. Should I continue to talk to her and text her occasionally? A few of my friends are telling me to get her( to talk to her more), but I'm uncertain. I completely respect her relationship, but any advice guys? Here's a snippet of how our last text conversation went so you guys get an idea. I'm pretty decent at it
Me: "Hey __, how was your day?"
Her: "My day was pretty grand, how about yours?"
Me: "Fantastic. Thanks for asking. Can't believe there's only one month left of school"
Her: "No problem and yeah I'm ready for summer, freedom, more time for myself!"
Me: "You said it! This weather has got me feeling it's summer already. It's torture"!
Her: "Lol it's not that bad."
- I saw that message and decided to switch topics.
Me: "Can't wait to go off to college but I'll miss our school." "You're getting more used to _?
Her: "Yeah, i'm happy your GRADUATING! Doing something I wish I could right now! But yeah I am it's real cool no problem"
Me: "You only got one more year. Watch out haha. It flies by and that's good." "What's your favorite food?
-I thought a change of topic would be appropriate to keep the conversation flowing.
Her: Yeah I'm ready, but umm I like baked macaroni and yours?"
Me: Hmm, that's a tough one, I dig macaroni, but my fave is chicken with rice. Do you cook? What do you make?
-I thought since we were already talking about food, I was hungry at the time.
Her: "Yeah that's good too, but no I don't cook exactly, but baking is something I'll do.. brownies, cakes, cupcakes"
Me:"Maybe you can bake a cake for my birthday coming really soon, haha. Are you good?"
Her: "Haha no, I'm fine, you would get a MUCH better cake if you buy it lol... I'm not that good!.. I'm good for like baking at home yeah of course but I wouldn't say for display"
Me: "You're kidding. We could start a bakery. "Cakes by ___" We could be business partners.
Her: "Haha if anything we could start a fashion company, not a bakery lol that's not my desired area of work but business partners sounds good haha"
Me: "Oh yeah fashion." "____ the fashionista" We'll be rich, speaking of rich, what would YOU do with a billion dollars?"
-Since we got on the subject of money, I thought it'd be a good turn to take in and I'd find more about her.
Her: "Haha yeah I guess, fashionista sounds pretty corny but it's cool and welllllllll if I knew a good business to invest into then I would invest my money (some of it), start my own business, go shopping, by my needs
Her: "How about you,"
Me: "That's a tough one, haha. I'd do a lot of things. Donate to charity, get my name in huge letters, help people around the world, get myself a nice house, nice cars, those material things".
Her: "Yeah, that's real nice you think about the world before yourself"
Me: "Thanks and you got a business mind. You got passion, that's a great trait ___...
"What's your favorite TV show?
-Decided to go a new route with the text convo to go to close.
Her: "Thanks, I plan on being successful, but um I don't watch TV much... I like Adventure Time on Cartoon Network though"
Me: "Adventure Time is sweet! I dig Regular Show though."
Her: "Yeah, I like regular show too, it's funny!"
Me: "I would have never thought you were into cartoons! Very cool! Nice talking to you __, night!"
Her: "Yeah I love cartoons! But night!"
I'd love feedback guys! Thanks!
To give you a figure of our ages, we're in high school.
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