So I've got this chick, it's being 9 months, long story. But for now my problem is we text too much and see each other only at school. The times I've asked her out she likes to cancel on me. Right now I'd appreciate advice on how to call her off on delaying too much while texting. She just takes too long to reply back, and I have a big hint she does it on purpose too. How can I call her out on it? A friend of mine set a game with his chick so that they wouldn't take more than 5 minutes to reply or there was some kind of punishment. I was thinking on doing this but putting the kiss or general bite clause. Thanks in advance.

Something like this happend to me, I met a girl at my school and we talk A LOT, and see not too much at school. The answer you are looking for depends, but I think you were frinedzoned, tell us more: is she giving IOI, how does she act near you? We need more information.

Simple:

Text less.

Talk more.

Hang out more.

She can't fuck you through the phone.

Calling her out is pointless - you want to text LESS and see her more. Why tell her she's horrible with the only medium you're actually communicating with?

It will serve no purpose other than making her aware that you hate it. It will also tell her that she is able to effectively punish you by making you wait for a reply.

We kissed twice, but she really played with me, the only time we went out was with her friend and her little brothers and when I got her alone I was in such a situation that I actually felt I had to tell her I wanted to kiss her. She clearly established how she didn't care what movie we watched cause she already watched all of them, then inside I was going for it and she actually looked at me and told me "I don't want to kiss you right now, I just don't feel like it". I made it a big thing, I took it as base when she stopped me and told me after 3 months of just chatting, no phone call and only once gone out that she "wanted to know where we stood". I told to her face that I didn't trust her and that I just felt rejection from her (which was true but now I think I made a mistake by saying it and not acting differently). After that I got tired, really showed no interest in our convos anymore, she stopped talking to me when she knew we were on christmas break and we already said we were gonna go out. First day back to school she actually pretended for me to talk to her after she disappeared without telling me where did she go (probably me thinking I deserved to know and not asking because I was afraid of she playing with what I wanted to know). Ignored her for 2 months straight, then one day I took my balls and called her to ask for forgiveness for doing that and that we could remain friends. After that, constant chat flirting, she giving me lots of IOIs, she searches my look when we're in a crowded situation and when we hook our eyes at each other she sticks her tongue out, she has a nickname for me, she tried getting me jealous with a friend of mine (she admitted to doing that before). She says she wants to hang out with me but last time she didn't mention it and then when I asked came up saying she had to do a project with her classmates, wanders around me waiting for me to notice her or talk to her and when I call her she acts like she doesn't want to. Also, whenever I tell her to "come" with me or, "tell" me or anything like that she just doesn't do it.
That's pretty much it, sorry for the long shit brick.

EDIT: We've both admitted it pisses us off but that we've gotten used to it. That's why I wanted to disempower that. Now, if I wanted to hang out with her today I wouldn't know how to tell her without her giving me the bullshit excuse her parents wouldn't want to or that they don't know me enough, etc.

^^ Well, that clarifies things significantly.

She's completely fucking with you and you couldn't be more AFC about it.

Go dark. Kick her to the curb. Why do you want to be around someone who fucks with you and makes you apologize for reacting??

There are a lot of details I surpassed, she did apologize to me before I did when I got pissed at her for not even talking to me, she tried saving it with excuses like "I let my friends tell me what to do with you" and "I didn't know you were gonna get offended for that". Since I tried asking her out in the beginning she always said her parents wouldn't let her because they didn't know me (we're 18), which I found complete bs, she also started talking how the psychologist told her she needed love, childhood, etc, and when she puts forward these baits I just don't know how to react to them, I don't know if she's gonna be serious or just gonna pull the switch on me. I mean it's being 9 months, seriously, you've never gone out? BS.
Thing is I really want her and now I don't know if to put her in a position to tell me what she thinks about me.

The other day there was this episode where her friends and her were sitting around, I sat down with them and since she sings really well and I told her once "it's like I've fallen in love with your voice", the other girls started asking her to start singing and she was singing all these indirect songs like they were meant to me.

Another episode is I told her I wanted to do a song with her, she sang I did the music, she handed me lyrics where she was saying stuff like "what you've been trying to hide, I'll whisper things you'll want to remember, and if there's nothing left I regret, would you tell me about yourself, asking you so you have time to lie". I just told her the lyrics made me reflect, went on and did the music, she asked me once about it and I showed her a piece of it, told me it was cool, in all of that finding out she had another phone apart from her iPhone that she never told me about. It's been one month since that and she hasn't asked me about the song again, don't know if she's waiting for me to tell her about it or just doesn't care.

Just a lot of messed up stuff, but I still want her.