So I used a routine to get a girls number off a dating website, and that we texted and arranged a meet up in the city. Then she texted me and said that she would have to stay in the city that night (she lives outside) but she hated sleeping in hostels alone cos she gets scared.

She was majorly hinting so I said I'd stay with her, which she accepted. I also know she would stay at my place but I don't really wanna bring her there cos I live with my parents and I don't know this girl.

I guess you're thinking what's the problem? Haha, really there is none but she is just being so obvious that it's sort of freaking me out, we've never met before and she's basically already giving me the green light. When we are getting drinks should I focus more on negging or being nice and making her feel at ease? I just don't want to fuck this up, if that is possible. But also I guess I just find this amount of forwardness (pre meet up) a little off putting.

Any words appreciated.

Soooo, you got some routine/advice off here? It worked, you got the green light, and it scared the fuck out of you?

I get that right?

Bro, just quit over thinking the whole thing, meet her, be yourself.

If you hit it off, go to her hotel, and have sex with her.

If it doesn't work out, so fucking what. BOOM it worked. Move to next.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

I don't want to sound patronizing or like your parents but be careful who you meet up with online. A girl that forward is either a hooker that is using a dating site to lure men out and will then get you when she has you (it happens), is not who she says she is (really old/a dude?) or she is crawling with disease if she is that easy (how many guys does she do this with).

I have never used internet dating myself but I have both male and female friends that have. Never known any to be that easy and obvious.

But hey that's just my experience from the UK. Girls in other countries may be different. She may well be genuine and you may have gamed her really well into this situation.

Good luck and stay safe.