| Just start talking with everyone man. Make new friends. That's the whole point of going out.
I prefer to go out alone... Shit, If I wanted to go out to hang out with a group of friends and get drunk... I'd much rather do it at my house. It's cheaper than spending 26 dollars on a long island that some drunk asshole usually ends up spilling all over you anyways.
Plus, your friends may or may not cock block you. As cruel as this may sound, I have told some friends that they aren't "allowed" to come out with me because they fucked up my game. All the banter and negging and shit seems very counter intuitive. My friends will push it a little too far just because they think I am being a dick.. Which I'm not. It's called flirting and most guys don't understand that.
Also, it fucks with my head sometimes. I don't like having people influence me negatively. Alot of my friends know I'm out picking up girls and they give me tons of shit when I get rejected. It happens. Some people DON'T FUCKING LIKE ME. I've accepted it. But they expect me to be able to get "any girl I approach" and they give me shit if I get blown out. Fuck that. I'd rather eject from the set and say "Okay! That was fun! Lets do it again!"
If you are out talking to EVERYONE, it doesn't matter if you go out alone. Because you never are SEEN alone. If a girl ever calls you out on it, just say "yeah, lets go find my friends!" grab her by the arm, and start walking around the bar/club acting like you are looking for your "friends." Opps, you can't find them. Oh well. Then you can take her where ever you want.
Just be SOCIAL dude... That's all that matters.
Here is something I have done/still do....
On your way into the bar, after you get out of your car... Find a group of a couple girls. Say "Hey guys, I'm not from around here but I wanted to check this bar out/a couple of these bars out (depends on where you are and if there are alot of bars around) Cool if I tag along with you guys until we get inside? I'll buy you your first round of drinks for being so friendly!" It's okay to do this as these girls will not be your target for the night. (I have pulled girls from this initial group before just because they start seeing me bounce around like a damn pinball and have every girl in the place talking to me. They get jealous.)
Most girls will say yes. They don't mind a friendly, social guy being with them because they know it keeps creepy guys away (they will think you are their boyfriend/brother or just don't have the balls or the social skills to approach a girl with a guy around)
Now, here's what this does for you... YOU ARE NOW SEEN WALKING INTO THE BAR WITH 2, 3, 4 however many GIRLS. Everyone in this bar will see you as the FUCKING MAN. You walk with the girls to the bar, buy them their first round of drinks as promised... Now you are seen DRINKING with these girls at the bar. Nobody knows how you know each other... They just see girls with you. That's all that matters. You now have social proof and preselection and have also created a set that you can go back to and socialize with should you not have a set that you can approach. (You won't be seen standing around alone)
Hope this helps you out bro.
-Majik
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