Hey guys and welcome to my post.

I'm pretty new to the whole PUA scene. I've been pulled to it from a place that I guess a lot of people must come from, namely being very 'average'. By average I mean that whilst I'm far from being a virgin and have led a pretty wild lifestyle I still lack total control over my dating life. I also regularly go for the 'easy catch' rather than the quality girl. I've also woke up to my fair share of horrors.

I've recently had an epiphany and decided that my life needs a drastic and urgent upgrade. To make you understand here's a little about me:

Background

I Joined the Army at 17, prior to that I worked in a bar from the age of 15, I left school at 15 because to put it bluntly I hated it. I spent the first few years in the Army getting pretty much wasted and smashing any chick that would come my way, whatever they looked like. Times were good but I needed to move on and grow. I'm now 24 and have decided that I need to take charge of my life and build the lifestyle I WANT. I've been reading Tim Ferris and Anthony Robbins and below are the steps I am taking.

1. Improve access to quality women.

The Army posts you in some pretty bleak backwater shitholes. Their obvious priority being how good the area is for training and sustaining family cohesion. These are NOT high on my agenda. To this end from September this year I will be living in London!

2. Improve access to quality women again.

This is also a double edged attack. I have enrolled on a university course in London. Not only will this further enahance my access to attractive women but it will also allow me to fill the hole left by leaving education at such an early age.

3. Build an enviable lifestyle.

I've promised myself that I will never work for a large company/organisation ever again. My first priority on getting my bearings in London is to seek out new business opportunities and exploit them fully.

4. Develop the physique I want.

My job keeps me in pretty good shape and I'm in no danger of becoming fat. I however want a body that screams SEX at a woman from 100 yards. I think guys get too caught up in trying to get huge. I plan to gradually take my body fat to sub 10% levels which will give definition in the abdominal area.

5. Travel more.

I want to create a life where I can travel where I want WHEN I want.

6. Choose women/not let them choose me.

I want the hot little thing in the red dress with deep blue eyes, not the half pig half woman who I know ill say yes after a blue WKD. I need higher standards and the willpower to enforce them. I WILL develop this.

Any guys who are on a similar journey to me please get in touch, alternately any old sweats who want to share some wisdom, your help is most appreciated.

Happy hunting guys and keep those chins up!

Sounds like you've got your head in the right place!

Welcome to the forum bro

Thanks mate good to hear, let the games begin!

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