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 Post subject: Friendship rut...
PostPosted: Fri May 31, 2013 6:15 am 
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Here's some quick background:

Seeing a girl who's 7 years younger than me. I know I'm a huge catch for her age group, both physically as well as socially, being that I'm a commercial pilot, new roadster, etc. Here's the deal - this girl is currently a rebound from a similarly young but slightly older girl I just ended it with. It's hard to describe, I'm still pretty hurt over how things ended with the old girl. New girl is very easy to talk to and knows nothing of my old girl, and we've hung out 4 times already...problem is it's developing towards talking and being friends without me really having physical contact with her. Me being in my mid-late 20s, I look at her being more of a girl than a woman. I do find her sexually attractive for sure, but feel almost as if I'm taking advantage of her if I make a move. I wouldn't mind using her as my game refresher for the next real girl to be honest. Any way to effectively bridge this gap during our next visit? Confidence really isn't an issue, it's more of the angle at which I approach it...


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 Post subject: Re: Friendship rut...
PostPosted: Fri May 31, 2013 2:02 pm 
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Here's some quick background:

Seeing a girl who's 7 years younger than me. I know I'm a huge catch for her age group, both physically as well as socially, being that I'm a commercial pilot, new roadster, etc. Here's the deal - this girl is currently a rebound from a similarly young but slightly older girl I just ended it with. It's hard to describe, I'm still pretty hurt over how things ended with the old girl. New girl is very easy to talk to and knows nothing of my old girl, and we've hung out 4 times already...problem is it's developing towards talking and being friends without me really having physical contact with her. Me being in my mid-late 20s, I look at her being more of a girl than a woman. I do find her sexually attractive for sure, but feel almost as if I'm taking advantage of her if I make a move. I wouldn't mind using her as my game refresher for the next real girl to be honest. Any way to effectively bridge this gap during our next visit? Confidence really isn't an issue, it's more of the angle at which I approach it...
Get sexual and get there quick, or you will be stuck in the "Friend Zone" for ever.

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 Post subject: Re: Friendship rut...
PostPosted: Fri May 31, 2013 7:22 pm 
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Girls like sex too believe it or not. She probably wants it just as much, if not more than you. You are not using her, even if she isn't your future wife.


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 Post subject: Re: Friendship rut...
PostPosted: Fri May 31, 2013 7:48 pm 
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I guess another issue is that I only get to see this girl once every 3-4 days because she works a lot. This causes a time delay problem, where every time I see her I'm almost forced to restart from point zero. I'll make the move to break the barrier, I'll keep posted on how it went.


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 Post subject: Re: Friendship rut...
PostPosted: Sun Jun 02, 2013 7:19 am 
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I guess that the delay just reinforces the need for you to sexualise your encounters much more then! You must be super flirty, use touch, speak seductively and get a kiss to confirm to her that this is going to he romance not friendship. Your aim is to get her comfortable too to this level of intimacy so make her feel at ease, relaxed and then hold her hand and go from there.

Obviously do this gradually but don't hang around too long otherwise you'll miss your chance (which is often less than you think if she's attractive and has lots of guys going for her)

Be confident - knowing she DOES want to meet you and not other guys she could potentially be with :)

Once she knows it's more than friends you want then maybe you will even find that she becomes 'available' between work shifts more often ;)

Good luck man

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