Hello, fellas!

I need to ask you some advice on the scenario.

I work in an office, since before I graduated from college, when I was an intern. In January, a new girl, 4 years younger then me (I'm 26, she's 22), was hired as an intern as well, who I'd say is a HB8. Notice that we work at the same place but not on the same group.

I started getting to know this HB8, to see if I could get somewhere. She, initially, was really serious, but as I approached she started to open herself.

Since March, when we started to get along better, she emails me EVERY SINGLE DAY, and we keep chatting as we work. At night, or on weekends, she calls me on FB to talk, as well.

But I just can't get to go out with this girl. She always has something to do. Last week, I called her to do something on Saturday, she said that if she survived Friday's party with her friends, she would go.

On Saturday, we were talking, on FB, at lunch time, then she stopped answering my messages... At night, she apologized, and said she felt asleep.

Nonetheless, she says we should do something one of this days...

Some facts, I couldn't put inside this short story:

When we're talking, eye to eye, she keeps looking from my eyes to my lips.

She has a lot of gay friends, and apparently, only goes to gay clubs, or college parties (I've never heard of her going somewhere else).

I have a great friend at work who is gay, who sits in the desk right in front of me. Me and this guy are the two people she gets along better in the office. Sometimes she goes to his desk and calls him out to gay parties.

She seeks A LOT of validation, saying things like "Hey, c'mon.. I'm cute" and alikes. These are very common.

Sometimes, we're chatting, and she hugs me... or let me hug her...


All this said. And I can't get to go out with her.

Maybe I'm reading her wrong! But I'd appreciate some advice!

Thanks!

Probably not what you want to hear, but most likely, she is not interested. This is quite common in the work place for girls to be very chatty/friendly/etc. even after work/not during work but won't go out. Best bet here is to reduce the amount of conversation and she how she takes it. Be slower to respond, etc.

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Gently push her off when she hugs you and see how that goes.

Thanks for the replies...

It's not, actually, a question of what I want to hear... but more a question of how I am reading signals that may not even exist...

I'll try to be a little bit colder and see what happens...

Thanks