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PostPosted: Thu May 30, 2013 5:24 pm 
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I have been travelling with a girl for 2 months around Asia we still have 2 more months left and well I really want her but unfortunately she doesn't feel the same. Asked her out and got flat out shut down saying that she just wants to be friends.

Problem is I see her everyday so I can't really just move on, and also the worst part is I get to hear about all the guys she wants and that she thinks are fucking hot.

Going nuts here, was thinking to just part ways now and save myself from further humiliation, but that would feel like I'm giving up.
Just need some advice as to how to approach this situation. Leave? Stay and change my behaviour (if so.. Like what),..........?
And i think it's turning into a oneitis situation here if it already hasn't.


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PostPosted: Thu May 30, 2013 6:34 pm 
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unfortunately she doesn't feel the same. Asked her out and got flat out shut down saying that she just wants to be friends.
Your fucked, not in the good way.
Use her as a wing, tell her to pull in some hot flesh for you. Girls love that shit.

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PostPosted: Thu May 30, 2013 10:25 pm 
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Yeah I know I'm fucked, and the worst part of it is we work together aswell.
But are there things I can do to win her over? Or just forget about it and move on?


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PostPosted: Thu May 30, 2013 11:35 pm 
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Short of getting her drunk, and making a hardcore move? Not much.

Blow her off hunt other women in her company. Treat her like YOU would never have anything to do with HER.
She's the bratty little sister, your forced to hang with because of work.

Tell her her butts getting bigger, at least once a week.

Ask her when she started bleaching her mustache.

I know it sounds counter productive, but trust me, chasing her WILL NOT WORK!

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PostPosted: Fri May 31, 2013 1:17 am 
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Well I'll try those methods thanks for the reply I'll keep you posted as things unfold, might even use her as a wing, we do go out to bars very often.

Any more tips would be greatly appreciated do's and don'ts
But thinking about it I don't really want to leave her company as we have been having a lot of fun. Just gotta keep my emotions in check.


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PostPosted: Fri May 31, 2013 9:32 am 
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yeah treat her as if she was a guy friend...

When you see a woman with great tits say things like:"WOW look at those tits!"
Do not wait for her.
Do not help her carrying stuff.
If she asks you for a favor act the same way you'll respond if a guy friend ask you for that... probably my reply would be like:"Fuck you! wait until I finish this and then I'll see."
If she starts complaining about whatever reply the way you would reply your bodies:"Come on don't be such a girl and stop complaining"

Do not become an asshole but treat her just as a friend... lets see how comfortable she will be with that.


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PostPosted: Fri May 31, 2013 10:11 am 
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Some sound advice, tried it today and already see the difference. I'm not being a prick to her but treating her I would treat a guy friend and act like I have 0 interest in her. She started being way more closer and more hands on than before. Glad I posted here.

Don't think that I will get her but this is fun, she made it clear she wasn't interested last time I asked her on a date.

Keep the tips coming. Cheers


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PostPosted: Sat Jun 01, 2013 3:02 am 
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there's always a problem if you're trying to get only that one certain girl. You get too attached, even more if you get ignored or dumped. Have fun, gain experience and when you're ready try and game her again. By then, you'll know what to do. She's just one of the many.


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 03, 2013 12:09 am 
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So already seeing some changes after only a few days.
Last night me, her and her friend went out for drinks and ended up back at our place with her friend, we live together in the same room but different beds, anyways I was talking to her friend most the night.
After drinks at our place her friend decided to sleep over the night and stayed in my bed (nothing happened).
The entire night I caught her friend constantly looking over to see if we were doing anything and this morning the first thing she asked in a wierd high pitched voice was "what did you guys get up to"
I replied" wouldn't you like to know" and pinched her nose.
Oh and she has cock blocked me once before, guaranteed sex and she blocked it from happening. But she says she doesn't like me in that way. So what's with the jealousy?
I stopped chasing after her and doing her favours.

listening to all the tips I can get, and I am flirting with other girls specially her friends who are gorgeous (better looking than her).


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 03, 2013 12:34 am 
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1. Industry.
2. Country.
3. Your roles in the company.
4. Why the fuck is a company rooming two employees of the opposite sex together?

*I'm not really into the 'looks' thing but give me a number for a reference point.


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 03, 2013 1:46 am 
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We are backpacking and working through Asia and Australia of our own Back, picking up odd jobs as we go from place to place, renting cheap rooms and drinking and socialising most nights. I never liked her at the beginning of the trip and didn't think I would but I'm surprised by how much I want her.

Looks wise she is a 7 and her friends are 8s and 9s
Her body is a solid 10 maybe 11


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 03, 2013 2:33 am 
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Short of getting her drunk, and making a hardcore move? Not much.

Blow her off hunt other women in her company. Treat her like YOU would never have anything to do with HER.
She's the bratty little sister, your forced to hang with because of work.

Tell her her butts getting bigger, at least once a week.

Ask her when she started bleaching her mustache.

I know it sounds counter productive, but trust me, chasing her WILL NOT WORK!

^^^This. Exactly this.

Women want what they can't have. Not someone who throws themselves at them for no reason. She is not challenged by you. You have been friend zoned. You are now a non sexual entity. Like a digital camera.


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 16, 2013 2:29 pm 
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So here is what's been happening since my last post.

1 - she opened up to me, and told me she is a Virgin. I'm First person she has ever told she said.

2 - since her friend started showing interest in me she has become way more touchy and cuddling me and constant spooning even though we have a spare sofa she lies ontop of me when we are watching something.

3 - she wanted to ask me how I felt about her, I had already told her months ago but then after she said she didn't feel the same I said that I will just move on and only see her as a friend. So she tried to ask me today and she stuttered and said don't worry about it. So I just didn't even mention it.

What do I say if she asks me how I feel?
The fact that she has never been with a guy, does it make it harder?
I started to be more touchy aswell massaging and playing with her, shall I continue or distance myself?


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 17, 2013 8:37 am 
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one thing i learned is never tell a girl how you feel
it is portrayed as a turn-off.

she is either becoming touchy because :
A:) her friend showing interest in you is annoying her because she secretly likes you

B:) you aren't playing along with her game,shes wants to string you along,control you,do not fall into her trap.

you also said you started to initiate kino,touching her,giving her massages: if you wanna be adventurous
deny her a massage, make her give you one,a small bit of compensation for all the times you gave her one.

you have been friendzoned,mate but there is a possible way,just start denying her cuddles and other stuff.
i would also distance yourself from her,if you really want her,Play her start flirting with other women in front of her,see a large chested women: whistle at her or admire her huge tits.if a slighty uglier woman is walking down the street say how pretty the ugly woman compared to her.

she will definitely get pissed off if you aren't playing her game.
if she tries to counter it by going off and flirting with other guys, :x fuck her,plenty more girls in the land and in the world. :mrgreen:

hope this helps :)

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 17, 2013 11:42 am 
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Sound advice mate I'll stop with the cuddling and that, another one of her friends is joining us for a week so I can flirt with her.
What about the Virgin thing? Her being a Virgin do the same rules apply? Because she is very timid when it comes to talking about anything sexual.


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