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PostPosted: Sun May 05, 2013 5:42 pm 
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Just as important as knowing which types of girls to approach is knowing which ones to not waste your time on. Most of the following examples is for night game but some also apply to day game.

Here is a good list of women not to waste your time approaching as 99% of the time you wont get anywhere with them. Time is a major factor when out at the bars/clubs and its very limited so spend it wisely.

1) Women who are holding hands. This seems to be getting more and more common. Girls who are doing this usually aren't lesbians but rather having a girls night out. The moment you approach one she will usually shut you down pretty much immediaty and if not, her friend will.

2) Groups of 3 or more. With groups of 3 or more there is almost always a major "group dynamic" that goes beyond the scope of this post. Just know, don't bother.

3) Girls surrounded by tons of guys. If you want a challenge go for it. However, if there are two cute girls, one with another girl friend and the other cutie surrounded by a bunch of guys... why not go for the easier one? Simple logic.

4) Hyper Chicks. If a woman is bouncing off the walls and running around all over the place, stay away. You won't get very far with this chick.

5) Over dressed woman. If it looks like she took an effort to cover up, chances are she doesn't wanna be there and was drug out by her friends. Don't bother.

6) Zero chemistry women. Ever approach a chick and find you really have to work and force it? Basically there is zero chemistry between the two of you. Just eject and go talk to someone else. This stuff should be fun, not something you have to force.

7) Girls who won't let you escalate at all. This ties into the last one a bit. Even if you're able to have a good conversation with her, if she continually rejects your escalation attempts then she have zero sexual interest in you. Move on buddy.

8) Girls who are rejecting everyone left and right. Go out enough and you will see the following happening: Girls non-verbally baiting guys to approach them and as soon as the guy does, the women blow him out. These girls usually go out in pairs and are only there for validation. You wont be getting anywhere with these girls.

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1) Women who are holding hands. This seems to be getting more and more common. Girls who are doing this usually aren't lesbians but rather having a girls night out. The moment you approach one she will usually shut you down pretty much immediaty and if not, her friend will.
I don't find that type attractive at all, to me it looks like they are lesbo.


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I break all these rules on a constant basis and have plenty of success. As a matter of fact, I only approach women well dressed, in large groups, hyper active, etc. Maybe these rules work for you, but for a middle aged (25-35) good looking guy, with social skills, this advice is severely flawed and not applicable.


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I break all these rules on a constant basis and have plenty of success. As a matter of fact, I only approach women well dressed, in large groups, hyper active, etc. Maybe these rules work for you, but for a middle aged (25-35) good looking guy, with social skills, this advice is severely flawed and not applicable.
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Ok Mr. badass with an entire 6 post, you have impressed us all. We believe you. :roll:

Do tell, why do you only approach over dressed hyper women in large groups?

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I break all these rules on a constant basis and have plenty of success. As a matter of fact, I only approach women well dressed, in large groups, hyper active, etc. Maybe these rules work for you, but for a middle aged (25-35) good looking guy, with social skills, this advice is severely flawed and not applicable.

^ hey man! I do to break a lot of those rules(specially when in the club i do not have many choices) and i hear what you are saying, but in doing so i waste tons of time... I think warped mindless is more focusing on fast seduction with efficiency. This is a very good guideline, it should not be use as an excuse no to approach, and it also should be taken into the account when you are in target poor environments. But if you have a choice between women in those categories vs women not in those categories. I think you are better of focusing on women no on those categories, he is totally right, i actually love this post. Next time you go out, just observe and you will see he is totally right.

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I break all these rules on a constant basis and have plenty of success. As a matter of fact, I only approach women well dressed, in large groups, hyper active, etc. Maybe these rules work for you, but for a middle aged (25-35) good looking guy, with social skills, this advice is severely flawed and not applicable.
I wouldn't take seriously someone who thinks 25 is middle aged. :o


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Lol 25 being middle aged, boy we must've returned to the stone age.

But, I agree with many that I'm skeptical of the post. While it's good to know which women not to waste time on, I think that the list is fairly exhaustive and unnecessary. Women who "appear" to be a certain way, doesn't necessarily dictate that they "will" be a certain way. We must be cautious and in our assumptions when meeting women. However, I totally agree with 6 and 7. Bad chemistry and lack of compliance usually do lead to dead ends with women. I'd even semi-agree with 8, but be careful even then. It could just be a bisexual couple looking for the right guy to fit the bill. Most of the other categories are unnecessary.

1.) Women holding hands can me many things. If they aren't looking the dominate girl will be very firm and aggressive. I've had it happen several times. It's not always the case though.

2.) Groups of 3 or more are not always bad. It depends on how well you can divide the group. Usually in a dance club it's easy to divide them down the middle and start dancing with all of them and then isolate one.

4.) Hyper Chicks? I don't even know why this is on the list.

5.) Again?


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1.) Women holding hands can me many things. If they aren't looking the dominate girl will be very firm and aggressive. I've had it happen several times. It's not always the case though.
For some reason I've simply never had success with girls who are holding hands with each other in a bar/club.
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2.) Groups of 3 or more are not always bad. It depends on how well you can divide the group. Usually in a dance club it's easy to divide them down the middle and start dancing with all of them and then isolate one.
Thats spending to much energy and time for the potential return. If you really want to approach a cute girl whos in a group, wait until she breaks away from it and goes to the bathroom, smoking section, bar, etc..

Or just approach one of the other 50+ chicks not in a large group.
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4.) Hyper Chicks? I don't even know why this is on the list.
Because these chicks are in "party" mode, not "go home with a guy mode." You can get some good reactions out of these women such as fast makeouts but she will rarely go home with a guy.

The best best with these type of girls is to wait until the end of the night and approach and escalate very fast on her and go for the pull. The downside is that by this time she will usually be very drunk and if you do get her home she will likely pass out.
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5.) Again?
If a woman is in "get laid" mode shes going to want to show off as much skin as possible.

Many people on here seem to get caught up on me tellings guys to avoid these types of women.

"But warped... its totally possible to fuck all these types of women, bro!"

Yes... yes it is. However, its like skills360 mentioned. My game focuses on zeroing in and targeting attractive chicks who are these to get laid. It easier and way more time and energy efficient. Usually its around 10% of the women there are in "get laid" mode and another 20% - 30% (roughly) would be open to going home with the right guy if he came along, and has easy logistics to approach.

The reason I get away with approaching very little women and have super fast pulls is because I zero in on women who gives me the best chance of fucking.

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I do like approaching large groups of girls if nobody else is and I've worked out a method to do so.

The trick is to elicit who the alpha female of the group is as she is the one who will decide if you are to be admitted to the group. The way to do this is to look at the orientation of the girls and see if any individual has more people facing them than others or to watch for when a girl is talking and see who she looks at when she has finished her sentence; she's checking the alpha females reaction to what she just said.

Once you have identified the alpha of the group then approach her direct. This identifies you as an alpha male and alphas are attracted to alphas.(your credentials are obvious as you've just approached a big set of girls when nobody else has the courage to do so)

Now the reason this works is girls more so than guys have hierarchical structures within them which are constantly in a state of flux with each and everyone of them wishing to increase their status within the group. The alpha female has the most challenges to her status because everyone is a threat to her.

By approaching her and only her you reinforce her status as the alpha female within their social hierarchy and it feels good to them. Even if there is no attraction between you for whatever reason she will appreciate your actions and allow you access to the group. Then you are pre-approved by her and all the girls drop into her frame. Voila a bevy of hotties and huge preselection for any other external HB watching.

To flip the frame: If you were out with a group of ten work colleagues and a hottie approaches in front of them you how does that make you feel?

There is however one caveat to bear in mind: only approach when the girls are in a good mood. If their group dynamic has been disturbed then the alpha may try to out alpha you as an emergency status retrieval.


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why are redheads/gingers not on the list?

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Honestly, while I usually avoid large groups unless the place I'm at has few suitable women, the best and most efficient way I've found to meet a girl in a large group is to simply wait until she parts with the group and goes to the bathroom, smoking area, or the bar.

However, if I don't feel like waiting the second best and efficient is to get proximity with the chick like 5 - 10 feet away (this is called the Hover approach), force and IOI (such as getting eye contact and then waving) and then walking closer to her and standing like 3 feet away and hold out your hand. If she has any interest at all she will grab your hand and you can pull her closer to you effectively putting her in mini-isolation.

After that usually one or more of her group will come over and try to interrupt. Just tell the girl to tell her friends she wants to talk and that things are cool. If she followed your forced IOI and then came to you when you held out your hand, she has enough attraction and investment to tell her friends that. They then pretty much leave you both alone.

This whole things takes like two minutes fast and its great because if she doesn't give you a good reaction to your forced IOI you know not to even bother with her.

Another decent way to do it is to merge your group with yours and then just start talking to the girl you want to talk with.

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Good list there. Seems quite accurate. However, you can still break the rules few times here and there especially with number 2 and 8.
Number 2 are not bad sets to enter.. Actually, those sets are divided into sets anyway. You never see a group of 6 all talking to each other at a club but instead you see them divided into smaller groups all close to each other. Just deal with the set like any other and if someone comes in to the set just introduce yourself to them and continue gaming the chick you went for.
With number 8 girls, preselection is a must. You have to actually attract before you go into the set, and still sometimes you would still get shut down, but chances you will get the women are much higher than if you cold approach her.

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PostPosted: Thu May 30, 2013 8:18 am 
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2) Groups of 3 or more. With groups of 3 or more there is almost always a major "group dynamic" that goes beyond the scope of this post. Just know, don't bother.
I disagree with this, personally. I've had plenty of experiences where I approached large groups, 5 sets, 6 sets, even sets with up to 10 people. The natural tendency seems to be to break down into smaller conversations, I believe studies have been done on that as well.

Hyper chicks I agree about, they usually aren't worth the effort, and to me anyway, it's usually not the DIMES that are being super hyper in social situations.

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why are redheads/gingers not on the list?
Because they are a self limiting belief and only exist inside your head :roll:


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