I really like this Asian woman, who is in her early twenties, who I used to work with. But she has been stalling me and I don't know why. Here's some back story:

We use to work at the same company but I was working on a temporary assignment. She was an intern at the time. We never spoke but did say smile at each other. We shared a moment that when I look back at it was extremely sexual. We were sitting opposite each other with computers dividing us and then I feel a rubbing on my shoe. She had her flats off and rubbing her stroking her foot against my shoe. I didn't think anything of it. But the more I think about it even if she thought my shoe was the leg of the table she most have been comfortable to take her shoes off in my presence.

Fast forward 6 months, I am on Linkedin and see her profile and send her starting from the last message received:

Sure! That sounds good. My phone number is 000=000=000.

Thanks so much for the information and consideration. The offer of lunch still stands some time next week when its nice... whats your phone number?

Hi X!
ex boss LinkedIN is X
I hope you can reach and connect with him! I'm sure he would love to be your reference or give you a recommendation.

I would also be happy to be a reference if you need me as well!

Hi X,

you don't mind me adding you, I was looking for Shuaib for a reference and couldn't find him but I found you so i don't know if you would be cool with giving me a ref...I could take you too lunch in return

SO I did call her but she was at a dinner date so I said I would call her back. did not call but texting back several hours later. Below is our text conversation:

Hey X this is Y and this my cell...so are you still woke? If not save me.

5 days later

I keep thinking the weather is going to get nice so we can go out no such luck ha ha

She wrote the next morning

Is this Y?

I said Yup and then texted her Lunch Today? True what time you take lunch.

She said I cant do lunch today sorry. My last day at the company is this Friday so its gonna be pretty hectic this week.

I said I understand.


WHAT SHOULD BE MY NEXT MOVE

Nothing. You just got blown off with a cannon of flake. Clinging to her will just show that you have no other options available, and have too much time on your hands so you can avoid to waste it.

I pretty much am on the sidelines on this why do you think its a "cannon of a flake"??

@Mr. Marville: "Cannon of flake" is a wonderful term.

well I thought about it and I am going to leave it alone I mean its pretty obvious I am being blown off

Appreciated!