If you know she's seeing other guys today, is it a good idea to call her today or wait until the day after?

If you talk to her that day, lets say like before the date maybe she'll remember you. If she gets with a guy later tonight, she might be in lala mode when you try to talk to her the next day.

Alternately, you can tell her you'll call her today. But not end up calling her and make her wonder. So basically Im debating:


- Call her today, let her know you're also going to be busy that night
- Call her tomorrow, while she might be in the afterglow after meeting someone new
- Wait a few days and call her, hoping thatshe'll have missed you (I havent talked to her in 3 days though)
- Tell her you'll call, but then cancel

Is this a girl you are already sleeping with or what?

Yes.

But for future girls, that date multiple guys, I'm wondering for that too. Is it good to talk to them on the days theyll probably be seeing other guys? Or wait til the day after?

Personally... I wouldn't talk to her on those days. It seems as if she is trying to make you jealous. Don't bite into it. Make it seem as if you are out fucking other women.