Im 50, yea I know. Ok, so iv been taking to this woman while now, and I was in an LTR, but that recently ended. 1 month now. So she told me via text she WILL take me to lunch. We, mostly her made it for this Friday. Now shes very smart, and is fully aware of my single status. I also know she checks my facebook from time to time, and texts, calls me, etc. And has been talking about me to her co-workers. I am not trying real hard to be a player, but want to have the upper hand here. I know she loves Chipolte, and we've setup this fast walk, grab a bite, and walk back fast to work lunch meeting. Her idea. We are getting some MacDonald's chicken wraps. Its in her diet. LOL. So anyway. I came up with the timing for her, and told her she would have to eat in 10 minutes. So what I wanted to do, was after she finishes, apply some light kino, and ask her: So, do you eat your Chipolte slowly, and savor every bite, or (dropping kino) gulp it down?

Does that sound good? Or too playerish?

It sounds just fine. She is already into you quit over thinking before you fuck it up. Just go with the flow.

By the way, If you are getting that feeling like you want and should kiss her, but don't know if you should.....FUCKING do it!

FYI I'm 53.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Thanks. I need to hear that kind of thing. I know there is interest.

OK, so she starts to kinda flake, saying its to cold to walk to McDonalds, and maybe we should do the Cafe, but its too many weight watcher points, etc. I just calmly said: You gotta pick something. So we ate at the Cafe. She was late as expected and texted me what she wanted, I ordered, and relaxed. The conversation went well, and gravitated back to relationships. Some light kino. So I did good there, but it felt almost as if she was offering it? I gotta read more. So anyway I tried to hook up this weekend, but she was too busy, etc. So its like shes yo-yoing me. OK, np. I am going to leave her to her busy weekend, and talk with her next week. Un-phased. I was working and getting all riled up over this. So I saw another woman I know, and I know it attracted to me I started "practicing" some kino on her. Now I see why oneitis sucks, it was so easy to kino playfully with a target I dont really care about. All of this stuff is making some sense to me now. the PUA stuff is what women really want us to do. Even if I dont end up with a G/F I am learning tons of stuff here. The thing is, I dont really like HB's. Or should I say what I consider an HB isnt what my peers think it is. I like a plain brunette with blue or green eyes, and a big fat ass. Blondes with big tits and too much makeup are not at all attractive to me. I like big butts and I cannot lie!

lol