I'm trying to learn some methods to improve my (non-existing) game.

I have a new girl that works in the same office as me. I've been able to introduce me properly, come of as a interesting guy by opening good and inviting her opinion on something spontanic. Some IOIs been displayed (she smiles a lot, curves, touches her hair).

I'm generally OK with the introduction part, but NOW is where I'm lost:

I want to display some value and keep her interested, but I don't manage to make her laugh really hard nor finding any good questions she likes answering. I think I have a tendency talking much, but not in a natural/calm way. My impression is "Alpha figures/PUAs" talk about general stuff that has a broad touching point(?).

The situations we find ourselves in is both encounters in the kitchen (lunch/coffee) and group discussions.

Can someone just give me a general idea on what to do.

Thanks/M

You've got to talk to more women (people in general) and improve your conversation skills.

I think MajikalMethod is right. Try picking up a copy of The Mystery Method and turning to page 144 and learning that routine. It may seem daunting at first, but when you 'get it' everything else starts to make sense.

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I may not be a "PUA" but when speaking to anyone, you have just met, you have to get them to flatter themselves, ask them out right, what are your hobbies/passions, ask them what their favourite thing about their hometown is, and if you are building the comfort, get them to remember by asking what their most exciting, romantic, sexual experience was. Build enough comfort and you can build this in.

A big part is calibrating as well, and knowing when its best to spike the sexual tone up and when to bring it down.

As the previous post suggested though, get to grips with practical expeience, its always the best way forward.

Talk about things that interest you, with tremendous vigor and passion.

It makes no difference what your interests are, so long as you're fascinated by them and talk about them in a compelling way, it will just sort of draw other people into your reality.

I'm not a computer programmer, but I'm fairly sure that if a programmer start talking excitedly about how awesome computers are...because aren't they just like the human brain?...I mean it looks like it's just one big piece but when you really look under the hood, there are allll these little parts and wires acting together but separately, each kind of doing its own thing but contributing to the thing we assume is just one cohesive part....blah blah blah.

See what I mean?

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I'll try to get some 1-on-1 with this chick and take it from there. Be fairly talkative and "leading" in group discussions.

Will get back with some kind of report.

Thanks for the feedback!

Could please specify which routine? I've ordered the book, but I think the page number differs quite much depending on edition.

Last two days I've been introducing myself, being nice and interested bla bla bla.

Today I'm not really in a talkative mode and I'm not being eager talking to her.

Does this type of behaviour confuse her and shows weakness, or can this be good in terms of forcing her to attract?

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I know this is a very vague question, but please give me general feedback: