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Hello!
I'm a rising college sophmore in the united states and I'm looking forward to learning what I can from POA. I have no problems with making friends with new people, so I consider myself to be a very friendly person. During my freshman year at school I've become friendly with alot of women, many of them attractive as well, but my problem is that I am just friends with them, nothing more (although rarely more stuff happens). If anyone has any recommendations for me please let me know, I'll gladly read them!
thanks!
Hello supernaut25,
To get rid of friend zone, one of the first things you have to do is just practice becoming totally comfortable with openly and freely expressing your real sexual desires and your real sexual feelings toward women that turn you on.
One of the best ways you can easily do this is by simply watching out for women that really sexually attract you and then trying to fearlessly stick your eyes on their hot body parts for a few minutes a day.
By the way, the point of this exercise is that you get used to fearlessly embracing and following your real sexual desires toward women that turn you on especially in the situations where you even get caught by the woman herself or others in public while you either sexually approaching women or just staring at their sexy body parts.
As the result of you becoming comfortable with your true sexual desires towards women, you're soon going to notice how women can actually sense and feel your real sexual vibes from "miles away" even before you say anything to the woman.
Now, another thing that has hugely helped me become more sexually confident when meeting women is approaching women in a laid back and joking way as if we have known each other like good old friends.
I guess this approach could help you a lot because I see that you are very good at making new friends.
So, what you do here is that you simply throw some kind of banter at her. And, the point of throwing such banter is to make her smile as soon as possible so that she instantly starts to feel comfortable with you and your fun approach. And, I guess that you've already heard many top pick up artists say that if you can make a random woman laugh or smile, then you can also easily seduce her and get into her wet panties if you like.
So, the way I do it is by boldly approaching a random woman at the bus stop, for example and then I say to her: "So, how long have you been waiting for me?"
What this approach also does for you is that it helps you see how fun the woman is. To give you a clue, woman's natural smile or even her saying to you "I've been waiting for you all my life" could well be the signals that she's happy to play along with your banter.
Finally, there's also another cool approach that you may like because by doing it you could easily take advantage of your ability to make friends with new people.
By the way, this opener helped me a lot when I first found the seduction community 2-3 years ago.
What you do is simply you go out there and as soon as you see a girl that you'd like to approach, you walk up to her and just say: "Hi, I know you."
Try to say it as if you've really seen her before despite the fact it's not true. So, you kind of show her that you are really amazed and surprised for seeing her again.
Immediately after you've said to her: "Hi, I know you", make a pause of about 3 to 4 seconds while looking at her right in her eyes by pretending that you are really surprised to see her. By the way, this pause is important for two reasons:
1) pausing builds up a kind of mystery in the girl's mind, and many women love to engage in mysterious things.
2) pausing is going to give her enough time to check you out and decide if she likes you or not.
And, guess what happens if she likes you. If she likes anything about you within those first few seconds, she may play along with your approach and say to you something like: "I think that I know you too."
And, man, if that happens, you may be on the safe road to experiencing your fast progress in approaching random women.
Now, if she says: "I think that I know you too", you say to her the following line:
"Look, let me be open and honest with you. I didn't know you but I know you now and would really like to get to know you."
By the way, the beauty of this approach is that it involves a mixture of positive and negative elements (for example, positive element is when you say that you'd like to get to know her, and the negative one is when you say that you didn't know her at all)...
...that all helps make her intrigued about you.
The next things you could do are most likely two options:
1. If you like, you could develop a nice chat about anything. This could help you practice chatting with random women.
As soon as you notice that she feels comfortable with chatting with you, I warmly recommend that you start touching her (or kinoing her) as soon as possible. You can start touching her arms first, then a few seconds later her shoulders, and then you could do the combination of those two touches linked together if you like.
Man, while touching her, just follow your natural sexual instinct and your natural sexual desires that could easily lead you into playfully touching her hair or slowly running your hand's palm from her shoulder down her back all the way down until you touch her ass.
If she's really enjoying it, you could also lean in for a kiss-close easily.
2. If you don't have much time to chat with her or if you want to pretend as if you don't have time to chat with her, just say something down the lines: "Look, I am in a kind of rush. My friend is waiting for me, and I have to go. What you would suggest as the best way for me to contact you later?"
Then, you could easily get her phone number or even facebook name.
Man, this "I know you" approach is awesome because you can practice your confidence and also chat with women, get their phone numbers, touch them, kiss them, and who knows, what you may end up doing together all at the same time.
Hope all this helps you to get on the right track to get rid of that frustrating friend zone.
Bruno
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