Hello all, a girl I've been talking/messing around with is coming into town this weekend and I want to try and build the interest up before then. We haven't gotten to hang out in almost 4 months with her job out of town and me being in school but her birthday was last weekend and I wished her a happy birthday and said that we need to celebrate when she gets back into town. She said alright and that's when she told me she would be home during Memorial day weekend. So now I'm thinking about texting her about this band that she likes (they just put out a new song) but trying to escalate the conversation into a sexual manner. Any tips or advice? Ohhhh yea...we've also talked about not looking for anything serious and that seeing other people would be cool. Thanks guys!

Just invite her out with you to see the band. There is no reason to get sexual through a call or a text. She can't suck your dick through the phone.

Very true...I may have typed that wrong but the band is not performing. I was just using that as a place to start the conversation because I know she likes this band. All I can say is the last time we we went out we ended up making out with her spending the night and no f-close..but she said if I stuck around then it would happen. That is really the only reason I was trying to escalate the conversation....I was thinking of something like "We still have some unfinished business from last time ". I only text her once in a while...so I should be good not seeming needy.

i think you are on the right track when you agreed for nothing serious and its cool to see other ppl.

Very true...I may have typed that wrong but the band is not performing. I was just using that as a place to start the conversation because I know she likes this band. All I can say is the last time we we went out we ended up making out with her spending the night and no f-close..but she said if I stuck around then it would happen. That is really the only reason I was trying to escalate the conversation....I was thinking of something like "We still have some unfinished business from last time ". I only text her once in a while...so I should be good not seeming needy.[/quote]

it does seem desperate because of the fact that your pushing for sex the next time you guys see eachother. she said it will happen if you stick around. she didnt say it will happen next time we see each other. just be patient dont try to force things. i bet when shes ready youll get the right signs. dont come off as a pushover begging for sex to happen.