You made yourself too available. You answered your own question lol

I also think you may have lost her on your day 2... I'll dig deeper. What happened then? Where did you guys go? What did you wind up doing? Were you escalating quickly enough? Were you escalating too quickly and creeped her out?

Thanks for the decent response!

I am fairly sure I already know the answer to my question like you said, there wasn't a day 2, she cancelled on the day 2.

The attraction was definitely there, I think I made her unsure because I was too forward in meeting up again, too available! I will wait and see what happens this week.

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You're being defensive because you aren't getting replies which satiate your ego, namely that she finds you attractive which is a dubious assumption to say the least as if she truly did she'd show some level of interest in establishing a 2nd (and first) date.

Also, you answer your own question as to your game plan on dealing with her in the event she contacts you again, and then ask us for suggestions. Seems counter-intuitive to me.

Give your head a shake, you're seeking validation that she's attracted to you. Work on your sense of self and then you won't find the need to heal a wounded ego by seeking support online at the cost of not making any reasonable change in yourself. Simple case of wanting to take a pill to remedy things rather than do any meaningful work to facilitate real change.

Ps. Its funny how you're following me to other threads trying to seek revenge, for likely the comments I made that don't fit your worldview. Its one part creepy, the other quite amusing.

n2thevoid I fully accept that I may have lost this one, however I have had similar situations before, I have recovered from this sort of thing in the past.

I was simply after more positive responses because I know from personal experience, you can recover from flakes. I had my own opinions and ideas on this, I just thought I would throw it out there to get some opinions(which was a mistake lol).

You assume I am looking for validation and not getting on my life, that's your interpretation of my message, which I know is wrong. I was insulted by your assumption which is why I got defensive.

I think you have a low self image, which you project onto others, causing you to misinterpret questions and situations.

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"All that we are is the result of what we have thought. The mind is everything. What we think, we become."
Guatama Buddha