Hi, im new to the world of PUA. Just a quick description of myself and a few follow up questions regarding 'Natural game' and AMC's;

Firstly, i'll let you know that in school i was the last of my friends to lose my virginity. I wasnt the worst looking or devoid of social abilities, and people often found it strange that i did not do well with the ladies. I am 5'11(average height) my build yo-yos between slim-average. I have every little natural toning, although i do tone up fairly quickly when i work out. I would say i am above average looking without being stunning, but i have very blue eyes, that girls find very appealing.

Anyway, after losing my V quite late at 19, i went on something of a 'hot streak', sleeping with 11 girls(some questionable looking). All when drunk. In this time, i also kiss closed an FHM top 100 model, and had a drink bought for me by an actress in a British Soap. However over the last year, i have had virtually nothing (a couple of kiss closes). And a friend gave me a copy of 'The venusian arts'. This, along with watching the VH1 show, i found very intriguing, and cant wait to try in the field.

So, my question is, do i discard everything that once brought me (limited) success and put my complete faith in the MM?

Thanks for taking the time to read this guys, i appreciate any FB, and look forward to interacting with you all.

Annon

If you already have some "game".... Don't change your whole game to what one person says. Take bits and pieces of it and apply it to your game. Figuring out where your sticking points are and make adjustments there.

Welcome to the forum bro!

If you already have some "game".... Don't change your whole game to what one person says. Take bits and pieces of it and apply it to your game. Figuring out where your sticking points are and make adjustments there.

Welcome to the forum bro! [/quote]

Thanks mate,

Unable to field test SPAM. But i look forward to it. Alot of the things that brought me success are mentioned as part of the MM. Good to know i can tweak bits and pieces, just going to concentrate on openers for now, but i look forward to learning from the community.

Annon

Thanks mate,

Unable to field test SPAM. But i look forward to it. Alot of the things that brought me success are mentioned as part of the MM. Good to know i can tweak bits and pieces, just going to concentrate on openers for now, but i look forward to learning from the community.

Annon[/quote]


Don't get hung up on "which opener to use" because it is realistically the LEAST important part of pick up. Learning how to calibrate and control the interaction is the most important part. You can always adjust after you open. Also, work on creating and emotional connection and you will have women CHASING after you because they will want to be with you so badly.

Learning game is simply becoming a super version of yourself. You don't have to surrender your identity and become a PUA Borg If there is anything to discard it's the things which hold you back, they're the excess baggage.