Hey guys need your help with a flaky bartender.

I was in a lounge bar with a mate of mine and were chatting up two foreign girls. Naturally their drinks were starting to get low and it was time for a top up. Taking their orders of what they wanted to drink, only 3 of them were consistent and one girl wanted to go fancy with some type of Tequila drink.
So I made my way to the bar and the moment of truth came to tell my order. Stupidly l forgot the type of Tequila drink this chick wanted. "Is it for a girl?" the bartender replied. I said yes. She gave me some suggestions that a girl would like as tequila beverage and had a laugh about it.
As she was making the drinks, there were 2 HBs bystanders were eves dropping the whole time. They were saying that we would make a great couple.
She returned with the drinks. I told her that her friends were trying to hook us up, in which she replied they are not my friends... We laughed again, she gave me a tray to carry my drinks and parted with strong eye contact.

I get back to my mate and the two girls. At this stage the alcohol was kicking in for them for their previous drinks. While holding the tray they rush in to grab their drinks. The unbalanced weight of the tray made one of the drinks tip and the tequila drink was the wrong order. So I made my way back to the bar.

"Wrong drink?" the Bartender replied. "Yeah wrong order". We laughed about it and while the 2 HB by standers at the bar were saying something about the bartender and I. The bartender gave me the next round of drinks on the house.

I told the bartender I would like to take her out sometime which she agreed to. But I needed some type of way to get in contact with her. While looking over her shoulder for her manager she said "I can't give you my number" because she was afraid she would get in trouble. After some persuading she settled for her Facebook. I asked her what time she got of work. She said she finishes at 3am. Considering it was 11pm, in my mind i was thinking, fuck waiting around for 3am. She saw me think about it and must of thought I was thinking that she was lying and tried to plead that she was telling the truth which I found cute.

The next day in the late afternoon I send her a private message via Facebook saying:

"Enjoyed chatting with you last night and find myself incredibly attached to you. If you find yourself free this week I'd like to pour you a drink."

Facebook indicates that she viewed the message at 7:18pm Sunday afternoon. Today is Monday and still no reply but I see she is responding to other people on her wall.

How do I get her to reply and not flake???

You can't. Leave it a few days then follow it up.

Re iterate what you said in the first message (it was good) and you're fine.

Seems like you did a reasonable job in the first place which is what it is all about.

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I agree with Steve except I wouldn't follow up.

I would wait out next time I go out and make sure I make my way through that bar. Be with girls and your buds, and then nonchalantly try to run into her.

It doesn't put much pressure on her. Don't confront her but just talk to her like you did before- as though nothing happened. Order drinks and go back to your homies. Then see if it's worth going back up to talk to her.

If not, then you could follow up. If you follow up now, I doubt she'll respond. Knowing two very good looking female bartenders myself, they both work at different bars and were both told to make new facebook pages just to give out to customers when they ask for numbers. I'm not saying it's the same in your case, but they do get hit on a lot.

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I agree with you "stevejabba" and funnily enough the Bartender girl messaged me back on Facebook after a couple of hours of posting on MPUA forum saying:

BARTENDER: "haha wow that was fast!!"
"I'm not free this week but maybe sometime next week? "

I haven't responded yet. Any tips or suggestions in what i should do next to avoid flakiness? Or dating tips?