Alright, so I message this girl on POF, number close her, text her for a few hours, and we arrange to meet the next night at a bar.

The bar went great. She even went as far to say it was refreshing, as her last online dates bombed.

We finish and go outside, and all of the IOI's were present - so we started making out. She said she felt uncomfortable doing it outside, so I said alright, let's go back to my car. It was pretty much an insta-close, as I just bought a new 2012 335i less than a year ago.

We're in the backseat, she's topless (yay tinted windows), and everything's going well... Until - "I just met you. I don't think I should be doing this."

She's pretty tall as well, so the backseat wasn't plausible for anything other than foreplay, which limited options considering I was almost an hour from home. I couldn't close it. It was obvious she wanted to, but I couldn't do it right.

Have any of you encountered this specific phrase? It seems like a frequent one, and that there should be some easy way to overcome it... I'm just a bit naive to it. Thoughts?

Thanks all.

Classic token resistance.

Agree with her.

Say, "you're right this is going too fast, let's just go back to what we were doing" and make out with her some more.

Then a few minutes later try to escalate again.

As 60 Years Of Challenge liked to say,

"Expect her to resist the first time. Just do it to get it out of the way. Expect it to happen the second time you try."

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That's good. I remember one girl that I didn't actually want to hook up with and I did this - she ended up just jumping me because she became so impatient.

Any other suggestions if it continues to be the same thing? Or different methods?

Yeah.

Really really turn her on, past the point of no return.

There is a point of female horniness, at which is becomes more difficult NOT to sleep with you, than it does to sleep with you (if she's the type of puts up barriers, which most of them do but far from all).

Your example fits my experience as well. Once they're turned on enough, they will be the ones who want to take it further.

Then YOU can tell them something like "slow down there turbo" and turn the tables if you really want, or else just fuck them if that's not your style.

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or pick up your phone and find the nearest hotel(since you were so far from home)...and keep the vibe going all the way there.

not sure how that would play out but it's all i got at the moment.

Yeah but then there was still the, "Let me see if I can get a hotel booked." scenario...

Which basically is saying let me find somewhere that we can fuck.