While trying to get the feel for negging, I sometimes go overboard and end up offending my target and sometimes having her call me out on it. What is the best way to recover from this? I usually end up apologizing and I swear that is not the right route.

I sometimes do that also but I recover with a hug and, if possible, a gentle kiss to the face or uper neck. Great way for introducing kino.

I never apologise verbaly.

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A neg is not an insult...

Ezo

a neg isn't an insult, but if you neg alot, people will get insulted. its like having little rocks thrown at you once its like "dude, what the hell was that" when it keeps happening you begin to get angry about it.

i'd just keep the negs down. one maybe 2. and more if you get interrupted.

don't say you're sorry though, thats ultralord of DLV's, right up there with "excuse me, can i ask you a question please"

-j-

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If you have trouble calibrating your negs, read some of the cocky-funny material and also the roleplaying routines. Get into the state where she is the evil fiesty one and you try to defend yourself. That is mild enough until you get your negs working.

You´ll get there, its only a matter of making more approaches.

Ezo

I want to emphasize what was said above.. Negs are NOT insults. If you feel that you're insulting them, you are either A) Acting to serious or B) negging at the wrong time.

You want to start of really playful.. like throwing a grain of sand.. that they hardly notice.. like a little ping at their ego. Gradually get a bit more aggressive with them.. but try to make sure that the more you neg.. the more you push pull. Give a lil kino.. neg a bit.. kino more.. neg a bit harder.. then finally you are going to want to neg less and give a lot of kino, and from there I'm sure you know the game just fine.

One of my favorite starters is the 'Nose wiggles' and 'is she always like this'.. they single the girl out and set the pace for her 'wanting to prove herself to you'

With that said. The Point of a Neg is to get the girl to TRY for you, qualify herself. If you gently put her on the floor.. she wont want to get back up or just run all over you.. if you 'nudge' her to the ground.. she'll bounce back and want to play back (play along with the game.. flirt etc).. but if you push her hard (insult).. she's just gonna be butt hurt and walk away.


I'll stop rambling now.. good luck mate

~Simon