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this first time for everyone is an awkward mess of mistakes. Its just how it works. Just take it slow, enjoy yourself and make sure to give your partner 100% attention.
even if it lasts 30 seconds, its not about the actual intercourse its the whole package from start to finish that matters. (words from my ex about her ex hubby)
^^This is good advice.
Focus all the attention on her.
The same way you calibrate your kino escalation based on her comfort levels... Adjust your movements and the way you are fucking her based on how much pleasure she is getting.
First of all, thanks for your answers although, you guys missed the point totally!
What I was asking with my very bad english which probably was the reason for the misunderstanding is if sexual confidence/sexual state/"whatever you call it" is so important to seduce a girl (not have sex with her) it must be surely be created some how because for your first time seducing a girl (not having sex with her) you need it. How do you think that I can conjure up sexual confidence out of think air.